how to do special things with my husband and we have kids no babysitter?

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  1. profile image52
    shaneenajamesposted 8 years ago

    how to do special things with my husband and we have kids no babysitter?

    i have three children 3,4,6 boys,and they are always around and my husband and i have not done something nice in so long what can i do?

  2. Mr.Iridescent profile image59
    Mr.Iridescentposted 8 years ago

    Hi, ok having a child could be tough and having more than 2 can be even more so, but it's kinda really easy to still have a romantic love life. But you should or could see if a family member or a real close friend could watch the kids until the next morning at least and then if so when your husband comes home from work or just send him 2 do something for u, have a nice candle lit dinner ready at the table, and u standing waiting on him in something sexy or something he likes and your comfortable in. Then after a nice dinner also have a nice warm bath ready upstairs or down and lead him to it and take it from there. All of this can be in a platonic way and u know what u r into and what ur husband likes. So u dnt have 2 go all out and please just him cause u have 2 please yourself since it's about the 2 of u. And if u can't get the kids away just wear them out throughout the day and pop a kids or one of their fav movies in and let them fall asleep.The younger they are the better and quicker they will go 2 sleep.And I know what it's like because the person I'm with has a 3 yr old daughter so I understand where u r coming from. But i wish u the best of luck and hope that I helped in some kind of way.

  3. MickS profile image69
    MickSposted 8 years ago

    get a babysitter, you have the answer in your question.

  4. dabeaner profile image59
    dabeanerposted 8 years ago

    Maybe you should have thought of that before you spawned a litter.  If you cannot afford a babysitter, maybe you should have had none or quit popping them out at a fewer number.

    And, "something nice" is very non-specific.


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