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Why is that people you like, don't care for you and people whom you hardly pay a

  1. Ruchira profile image76
    Ruchiraposted 7 years ago

    Why is that people you like, don't care for you and people whom you hardly pay attention, care for u

    is the almighty trying to signal us...that we are making wrong choices and gotta pay attention to people who care for us rather than we look out for such people who don't give a damn for us....

  2. ahorseback profile image59
    ahorsebackposted 7 years ago

    We are human and being human make mistakes in judgement ,
    those that like and chose our company may have better judgement than we do...go with it, use you gut feelings......

  3. Marisa OConnor profile image64
    Marisa OConnorposted 7 years ago

    Ask yourself why you like the people you like.  What are the qualities in them that attract you?

    I don't know if this is the case for you, but many people are attracted to people that don't like them or are mean to them because they think that is what they deserve.

    If you don't feel good about yourself, you are going to be confused and repelled by people who are attracted to you.  It will make you feel uncomfortable and suspicious because you don't think that their feeling is genuine.

  4. Michael Willis profile image81
    Michael Willisposted 7 years ago

    Very good question to ask.
    I think that we sometimes are drawn to people who may have qualities or stronger qualities we may desire for ourselves. Maybe it is subconscious, but we admire them.

    The same can be said for those who care for us when we do not notice them or feel the same as they do for us. We shouldn't brush off those who like us when we may not return the same likeness, but feel complimented by the fact that they see something in us they strive for or just admire.