Which of you mothers would rather stay home & have your other half work?
How do you do it when staying home; especially when being home with your children...because of no babysitter? Knowing that your other half can support the family, would you still rather stay home?
I stayed home with my kids. They were 7 years apart and when my older son was born, my husband was in the Navy so I didn't really have to work. I wanted to be home with them and loved all of it, nurturing them, giving them the experiences I thought they should have, volunteering at their schools, etc. Did I go nuts sometimes, esp. when my husband was deployed? Definitely!
It was harder financially when my younger son was a few years old on up b/c by then my husband was out of the navy. I was going to school part time and working p/t but I still wanted to be home when my kids got home from school. I felt that was important. And by then when my older one was a teenager, he needed that bit of watching after school as he was (is) a much more of a risk taker than my younger one.
I would do it all the same again if I had to.
I am a work at home mom, and my husband works outside of the home, mainly because my eldest is autistic and requires 24 hour care. It is hard raising kids, keeping house and working from home, but it also has its rewards. I wouldn't change it for the world at this point.
I have had the opportunity to stay home with my kids. I work also as a contractor and go to school, so sometimes it's hard to balance everything. I do think it is totally worth it though if one of the parents is able to stay home.
by janesix 3 years ago
Should moms stay home with their kids? I think they should . It's better for the family in my opinion. At least until they are in school full time. The American family is falling apart, and mothers working and dumping kids off in daycare is part of the problem. Absentee dads is also a huge problem...
by Delilah 6 years ago
What would you rather do? Stay home and raise your children or work?would you choose to stay at home and raise your child or children with struggle or work all the time and have some one else raise them or them raise their selves, basically?
by Just Ask Jess 6 years ago
If you had the choice, would you rather be a stay at home mom or a career mom?Some people cant afford to stay at home, but if you could..would you?
by Habby 8 years ago
I am currently a SAHM and really value this role and the opportunity to invest in my children. My three children are all 5 and under, so I thought this was THE most important time to stay home with them. When this phase was over, I was thinking of going back to teaching. (I was an...
by Adam Sherman 7 years ago
If you had the choice, would you rather be a stay-at-home-mom or...join your husband in bringing home a paycheck?
by Marissa 6 years ago
What made you decide to be a Stay-at-home-Mom or Stay-at-home-Dad?I decided that I didn't want to miss the precious childhood years of my children, loving them and teaching them the only way a mother can. What was your reason?
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