While growing up, what things surprised you most about your parent's in relation

  1. Pearldiver profile image81
    Pearldiverposted 6 years ago

    While growing up, what things surprised you most about your parent's in relation to their lives?

    For example; I never knew that my mother had a fear of short men in large black hats, or that she had successfully remained submerged for the entire length of a lake, on only a single breath, while water-skiing.... simply because she foolishly believed what she had been told: "Okay... it's easy... remember that whatever you do... don't let go of the towrope!"

  2. SomewayOuttaHere profile image60
    SomewayOuttaHereposted 6 years ago

    i don't have an answer right now..but thanks for the laugh - your poor mom!

  3. Amy Becherer profile image72
    Amy Bechererposted 6 years ago

    As a child I had no real concept of marriage.  It just appeared to be something everyone did. Although I saw my dad kiss my mom before he left for work, I thought that was something everyone did, just like on the TV shows. As I got older, my mom shared the stories of how they'd met and that my dad was jealous when they were dating if he heard she'd even talked with another man from her workplace. In my teenage years, as I became interested in boys, I still saw my mom and dad as parents, not as a man and woman in love. 

    When my father passed away at 79 years old after 50 years of marriage, my mom told me about a calendar she found in the basement.  My dad had marked the days with a "WOW" in red every time they had a "party" (as he called it, according to mom).  Those sweet , frequent notes on the calendar made me realize what I'd never really thought about...that my parents were madly, passionately in love until "death do us part."  My mom misses him everyday.