Do you think it's ok to discipline kids with public embarrassment?

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  1. smlbizmatters profile image70
    smlbizmattersposted 6 years ago

    Do you think it's ok to discipline kids with public embarrassment?

    Ex: The Facebook teen that was caught with a photo of her drinking by her parent and was made to post a picture up that "embarrassed" her as punishment.

  2. Manna in the wild profile image68
    Manna in the wildposted 6 years ago

    For the vast majority of cases, no it's not a good way. I accept there might be some last-resort cases that could benefit but in general those dishing out discipline should show respect and sensitivity. Children are continually testing the boundaries and trying to find their way in the world. Guidance should be a private affair.

    1. gmwilliams profile image81
      gmwilliamsposted 5 years agoin reply to this

      THANK YOU.

  3. TripleAMom profile image85
    TripleAMomposted 6 years ago

    I don't believe in public punishment because I believe it becomes public humiliation and I don't think that helps the parent/child relationship.  I think that "punishment" is supposed to be correction or discipline, not getting back at a child in anger.  That's what tends to happen when there is an immediate response to something a child does in public.  The guy on the internet did not expect his post to go viral as far as he stated and thought the girl and her friends only was going to see the video.  I thought that was creative, but at the same time, I don't believe I would have gone to that extent.  I would have taken the laptop, not to return it indefinately, and had my child explain why he/she could not contact their friends to their friends.  That is enough embarrasment without the parent doing it.

    1. gmwilliams profile image81
      gmwilliamsposted 5 years agoin reply to this

      Totally agree, correction is supposed to be constructive and upbuilding, NEVER denigrating nor destructive to the child's self-esteem!

  4. nightwork4 profile image59
    nightwork4posted 6 years ago

    you must be the most ignorant and stupidest person i've ever saw. so how does it feel? get my point. i didn't mean it by the way but i hope people see what i'm trying to say.

  5. BeCurious profile image59
    BeCuriousposted 6 years ago

    Humiliation of another person, no matter who it is, is never okay.  I consider it to be especially reprehensible when parents humiliate their children.  It makes me feel sick.
    I've always told my kids that I'm always on their side, no matter what.  This doesn't mean they can do whatever they want.  But first and foremost, they need to know that I am there for them and however terrible a thing they may have done, I love them and we'll work through it together.

    1. gmwilliams profile image81
      gmwilliamsposted 5 years agoin reply to this

      Great parental strategy.

 
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