Who will you choose to soend the rest of your life with between this two?

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   Dreatechposted 12 years ago

   Who will you choose to soend the rest of your life with between this two?
   
   If you are told to choose between someone that have save your life and almostb lose its life because of you and someone that has spent so much on you and your family? while both love and want to marry you? who will you want tto spend all your life with?

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   msorenssonposted 12 years ago

   The ONLY reason to marry is because you love the person. Marriage is hard enough when both of you love each because in a sense it is organic..you both evolve...
   
   There is no other reason to give up one's freedom..in a sense..other than you are willing to give up some of it, for the happiness of another...

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   mattdigiulioposted 12 years ago

   Neither, how do YOU feel about each? Worry not so much about what they've done for you, your family -- think about how you feel, what's best for you. Good luck!

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   Cat Rposted 12 years ago

   It's not about money, if that is what you mean with 'spending'. It's about caring for each other, respecting each other, and being able to live with each other for the rest of each other's lives! It would come down to with who I could connect.

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   Faceless39posted 12 years ago

   Who do you like spending all your time with?  Who do you dream about at night, and think about all day?  Who would make a good parent, be a god wife/husband?  Etc.

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   freefoggingposted 12 years ago

   You can have money and love and love without money...I would choose love and trust before I would choose money...You could have all the money in the world, but without love, it would really do you no good..you would be miserable...at least I would...I have a wonderful husband of 30 years...we aren't poor, but we aren't rich either...But, I would live with him forever even if we had to live in a shack and beg for food...because it is the most awesome thing in the world to be loved like I am.

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   smzclarkposted 12 years ago

   If you don't know which; then neither. Nobody can tell you who to marry. It's not about who risked their life to save yours or about money. You do mention love, but that's mentioned last...? Who will you be most happy with? I wouldn't marry anyone who had to get advice on hubpages as to whether or not to marry me

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   juiwei2000posted 12 years ago

   Neither, you should never be with somebody simply because you feel obligated.  It is unfair to both him/her and yourself.  I once know a girl who stay with a guy because she feel obligated and to make matter worse, she is in love with another guy.  Fortunetly the other guy have a principle of not stealing girl friends, because he was really into her too.  But even so, if you are that girl's boy friend, how would you feel, knowing all these.  Or just know your girl friend doesn't love you at all.  It is like finding out your wife is really a lesbian who never loved you, ouch.

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   Ana Teixeiraposted 12 years ago

   I would spend my life with the one I love. Regardless of which one of them it is.. and if I didn't love either of them.. then.. NONE of them would be good for me. Spending your life with someone is about how you feel and about the chemistry and not about logic or gratitude

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    Beata Stasakposted 12 years ago

    Follow your heart, it will tell you which way to choose...

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