Before actually reading this note from me.. please take time to read it completely and not just skim over it fast,- I am typing this with an enormous saddened heart. I thank those of you out there with the understanding that I needed. I have decided this to my last entry from me because of the cruel and not understanding responses received.
Also I am sorry for those who did not take the time to understand my words typed. And really sorry if I offended anyone.... as it was unintentional.
I am new to this Hub and in my desperate need for other opinions besides my vets, I had asked questions about the health of my loving family member who was failing fast.
From replies it was more devastating then I could have imagined. All I wanted was an answer from those who have pets and might have an answer that just might help with a huge decision that had to be made in my life.
I received notes from such negative persons that it showed and proved to me that people don't read what is written they only pick at words they think...just think is all there is to read. Then had the nerve to respond to my plight with words that sounded like yelling and fighting with someone they don't even know.
I had written about "taking my beloved pet and closest friend to the vets imediately upon knowing he was not feeling well. I was over protective of him and we went to the doctors (vets)at even the slightest sign of not feeling well.
But this time he was extremely ill.... I knew this from all the tests and x-rays taken....also we knew the probability that no cure was available.
All I wanted from those out there in hub was maybe some encouragement and help with a possible second opinion or positive thoughts. I always knew in my heart that no one could help me but when one is desperate many avenues are taken.
But I never expected such cruel responses sent to me. These people have very shallow minds and should not be on hub giving opinions when they don't bother to read all that is written or asking questions in return. People should never slam others without knowing the complete picture.
I feel only sadness for those people who just don't get it, what life is all about and how to respond to others in need.
I am also very spiritual and practice what I believe in. This helped us through the following days of our beloved pet's inevitable passing. As hard as it was I believe he is and always will be beside me forever and we will walk together in many meditations.
I still and always will love my pet my friend who loved me and my family unconditionally.... many many years of living in this life and sharing together what many may never ever experience.
For those who do know this life experience they are as blessed as I am.
For all of my new hub connections with loving positive responses:
I wish you a great day of love and light.
Sabre1
Sabre1,
I know how hard it is to lose a pet. They become part of your family. They love you unconditionally and they're always there for you when you need them. I'm sorry you lost your friend, your family member.
I'm even sorrier that people were cruel to you when all you wanted was a second opinion. Or maybe just a few kind words. I also know how that feels.
The important thing to do right now is to remember that your pet will always be in your heart and to keep your pet alive in memory.
Wishing you lots of love and light,
Rainbow Pride
no respect.
that's how many people are lately. they read tiny parts of people's hubs and attack them for no reason. if they would actually read the whole hub they would see how inappropriate their comments can be.
i didn't read your hub, but i am sorry about your pet. i have a little bunny who means the world to me and if i lost her i would be heartbroken. last year she got sick and i cried the first two days because she just laid there so still and cold, like a little furry statue. thankfully she got better.
those people who left nastiness on your hub are not HubPages. they are just disgruntled souls with no regard for other people's feelings. i hope you feel better soon.
I'm sorry you had this negative experience, Sabre1.
I'm sure you did everything you could for your dog and that he had a very happy life with your family.
I know it's too late but if you still need someone to talk to you can mail me.
I can't imagine what you got replies to, since you have no Hubs and no forum participation except for starting this thread.
You have no history here, unless you were here under another account, with a different name.
I just lost my dog Pissy last March 2 and although I still have another dog that I called Peso, I was still devastated and until now I know my life will never be the same again. NOw it's only me and Peso in my house and might welcome another pet soon. I know the feeling when one's pet is sick. Peso undergone six surgeries and it was a great blessing from God to see him healthier now adays, but Pissy's did not make it...
I understand your feelings also about those people here in hubs that gave you offending comments.. you know some dog lovers think they are the best when it comes for caring for dogs, and I realized too, dog rearing became a competition to some, the more they read, the better they are ( that's what they think), having forgotten the very basic of dog caring.....
Goodluck to you and try to follow me so that you will know my dogs' stories
by Michelle Dee 11 years ago
What do you say to someone who has just love a beloved pet?What are some things one can say to someone to make them feel better or to give them consolidation after they have lost a beloved pet?
by Stacie L 8 years ago
Has anyone ever told you that your beloved pet was the ugliest animal they ever saw?We love our furry children just like human ones so when someone insults us about them, what do you do?
by BenWritings 13 years ago
Have you ever owned a beloved pet that was hit by a car and survived?My roommate's little dog got run over and it shattered his pelvis but he somehow survived, even though he was barely any wider than the wheel that ran him over. Any similar stories?
by Cindy Lawson 12 years ago
If your dog or cat needed a limb amputated would you keep the pet or put it to sleep?For the record I have seen loads of dogs and cats with three, (even two) legs survive perfectly well, but likewise I have seen owners faced with this choice say that either they don't think it is fair to have a...
by No Abuse Zone 13 years ago
I've very sorry that you've lost Pinky. I've lost many pets and it takes time to overcome their death. I still think about my one rotti that was born on the same day as my daughter. They grew up together and were best of pals. The emotions you will experience after losing a...
by Julianna 6 years ago
Why does God give children to those who abuse them? This has been a question that I have been trying to find an answer for. Discussing this through the years I honestly am looking for a true understanding of why? There are many in the world who would love to have children however they will never...
Copyright © 2024 The Arena Media Brands, LLC and respective content providers on this website. HubPages® is a registered trademark of The Arena Platform, Inc. Other product and company names shown may be trademarks of their respective owners. The Arena Media Brands, LLC and respective content providers to this website may receive compensation for some links to products and services on this website.
Copyright © 2024 Maven Media Brands, LLC and respective owners.
As a user in the EEA, your approval is needed on a few things. To provide a better website experience, hubpages.com uses cookies (and other similar technologies) and may collect, process, and share personal data. Please choose which areas of our service you consent to our doing so.
For more information on managing or withdrawing consents and how we handle data, visit our Privacy Policy at: https://corp.maven.io/privacy-policy
Show DetailsNecessary | |
---|---|
HubPages Device ID | This is used to identify particular browsers or devices when the access the service, and is used for security reasons. |
Login | This is necessary to sign in to the HubPages Service. |
Google Recaptcha | This is used to prevent bots and spam. (Privacy Policy) |
Akismet | This is used to detect comment spam. (Privacy Policy) |
HubPages Google Analytics | This is used to provide data on traffic to our website, all personally identifyable data is anonymized. (Privacy Policy) |
HubPages Traffic Pixel | This is used to collect data on traffic to articles and other pages on our site. Unless you are signed in to a HubPages account, all personally identifiable information is anonymized. |
Amazon Web Services | This is a cloud services platform that we used to host our service. (Privacy Policy) |
Cloudflare | This is a cloud CDN service that we use to efficiently deliver files required for our service to operate such as javascript, cascading style sheets, images, and videos. (Privacy Policy) |
Google Hosted Libraries | Javascript software libraries such as jQuery are loaded at endpoints on the googleapis.com or gstatic.com domains, for performance and efficiency reasons. (Privacy Policy) |
Features | |
---|---|
Google Custom Search | This is feature allows you to search the site. (Privacy Policy) |
Google Maps | Some articles have Google Maps embedded in them. (Privacy Policy) |
Google Charts | This is used to display charts and graphs on articles and the author center. (Privacy Policy) |
Google AdSense Host API | This service allows you to sign up for or associate a Google AdSense account with HubPages, so that you can earn money from ads on your articles. No data is shared unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy) |
Google YouTube | Some articles have YouTube videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy) |
Vimeo | Some articles have Vimeo videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy) |
Paypal | This is used for a registered author who enrolls in the HubPages Earnings program and requests to be paid via PayPal. No data is shared with Paypal unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy) |
Facebook Login | You can use this to streamline signing up for, or signing in to your Hubpages account. No data is shared with Facebook unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy) |
Maven | This supports the Maven widget and search functionality. (Privacy Policy) |
Marketing | |
---|---|
Google AdSense | This is an ad network. (Privacy Policy) |
Google DoubleClick | Google provides ad serving technology and runs an ad network. (Privacy Policy) |
Index Exchange | This is an ad network. (Privacy Policy) |
Sovrn | This is an ad network. (Privacy Policy) |
Facebook Ads | This is an ad network. (Privacy Policy) |
Amazon Unified Ad Marketplace | This is an ad network. (Privacy Policy) |
AppNexus | This is an ad network. (Privacy Policy) |
Openx | This is an ad network. (Privacy Policy) |
Rubicon Project | This is an ad network. (Privacy Policy) |
TripleLift | This is an ad network. (Privacy Policy) |
Say Media | We partner with Say Media to deliver ad campaigns on our sites. (Privacy Policy) |
Remarketing Pixels | We may use remarketing pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to advertise the HubPages Service to people that have visited our sites. |
Conversion Tracking Pixels | We may use conversion tracking pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to identify when an advertisement has successfully resulted in the desired action, such as signing up for the HubPages Service or publishing an article on the HubPages Service. |
Statistics | |
---|---|
Author Google Analytics | This is used to provide traffic data and reports to the authors of articles on the HubPages Service. (Privacy Policy) |
Comscore | ComScore is a media measurement and analytics company providing marketing data and analytics to enterprises, media and advertising agencies, and publishers. Non-consent will result in ComScore only processing obfuscated personal data. (Privacy Policy) |
Amazon Tracking Pixel | Some articles display amazon products as part of the Amazon Affiliate program, this pixel provides traffic statistics for those products (Privacy Policy) |
Clicksco | This is a data management platform studying reader behavior (Privacy Policy) |