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Self-Confidence, what is it?

Updated on April 22, 2013

In this article I'll talk about what is self-confidence? But before we move further, here are some things that one needs to ask. Self-confidence is a common phrase and I'm sure most of you are aware of it, but what opinion do you usually have when you perceive the word self-confidence? Do you think it's a desirable quality or some kind of self obsessed, overblown appraisal of ones own capability? Do you aspire for greater self confidence or do you hold negative feelings towards those who seem to be too confident?

Self-confidence and self-esteem

Well, most of the people are confused about what it really means to be self-confident. It is something that is directly linked to your self-esteem. It's not quite the same though! Self-esteem has more to do with how you feel about yourself. Self-confidence is an inner feeling of conviction about your ability to accomplish an activity. It is closely linked to self esteem, which is your own personal judgment on your value and your worth as a person. So, manifesting extraordinary self-confidence cannot be achieved without a sound decree of self-esteem. Your self-esteem is therefore an important factor in determining your self-confidence. You should learn to uphold it within a certain reasonable level.

Balancing it

An unreasonable decree of self esteem will result to being overly self confident, which can often prove to be unrealistic and egotism, which is far worse. Besides, being over confident and unrealistic can be harmful in many ways. Having unrealistic self-confidence will have a negative impact on your self-esteem as well. This will wear down your self-confidence and may often cause an emotional setback.

Where does it come from?

Self-confidence develops or decreases in response to your personal values about who you are and what you are capable of. These personal values are greatly influenced by your self-esteem. If you have a low self-esteem, then your decree of commitment will also be low. This will result in your disappointment in everything you do and will further wear down your self-esteem. In order to be successful, one has to have a sound decree of self-esteem as it influences your self-confidence as well. These factors will bear successful results and it will help you to fuel up your level of confidence.

It's advantages

Having this attribute will make your life much easier and much more fun. It will give you the oomph to pursue your dreams and the power to surmount hindrances. People who lack self-confidence, fear disappointment and the worst part is that they actually expect dissapointment. This prevents them from reaching out for their aspirations. Self confidence on the other hand, gives a sense of conviction in your ability to bring about a favorable result. This quality will allow you to achieve your dreams. Developing and flaunting self-confidence will have a positive impact on your life on almost every level.

With your self-confidence, you can change the way the world responds to you. Develop this quality in you and create the life you desire.


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