For the last two days or so, I've been compelled to look at the car wreck. I keep slowing down to watch even though I know I need to keep driving and keep my eye on my own traffic. I knew it was a bad wreck, the longer the lines of cars extended, one after another. I actually drove pass several times but kept going back to see if the carnage had gotten any worse. I keep going around the block, saying I'm not going back there, but find myself circling around, compelled to see what happens next.
Some people are actually stopping and getting out of their cars to try and help. But the situation has gotten so out of hand. I don't know why I keep going back. I feel like a voyeur. I guess it's human nature. Or maybe I keep hoping that it will be all cleared and the carnage removed. I'm fascinated by the car wreck as well as my response to it.
I decided to post this as a way to keep myself from going back to peer in at the wreck. I'd also like to know if anyone else is as compelled as I am to keep looking at the car wreck. Thoughts? Peace.
I am, too. But I think it is not so much a wreck as an inconvenient collision of of opinions, perspectives and ideas. I think it will eventually make us realize that we are all in this together, and we will make better connections with those who we initially thought were adversaries.
I wrote an article recently and posted a photo about a car wreck at the neighbor's, on another site. The driver died at the scene, and the female passenger is paralyzed. Beer cans were scattered all over the sight. Very sad that a witness judged the car traveling at about 90 mph on a country road with a very sharp curve.
It is sometimes hard to notice the wrecks with all the "Dip Ahead" posts going up around the highway. So I try to just overlook the igits pulled over with their flat tires -the folks caught up in bitching sessions with fellow drives- and instead search for smoother exits.
I actually hate to admit this, but I like the opinionated chaos that ensues..It's a grand opportunity to see how certain people really conduct themselves when they have an agenda, or a point they're trying to get across. The words in which we choose to express ourselves--speaks volumes, and as writers, we of all people should know, we are all held accountable for our words.
ahhh! rubber-neckers, are ye? Usually when there is a pile up like that it greatly helps when a person with an objective viewpoint stops and tries to help find a solution to untangle the mess. It is sad, because the original driver on the freeway did not mean for it to turn into chaos.
I think a driver should be be given the option of turning off the engine when it gets overheated. I pulled out and parked on the curb went back to check then left again. Hopefully it is cleared up by now.
Hmm, yes, you're right. The traffic cops. I wonder if any passers-by called 911 or at least made a report. I'm glad you got out in time. Are you still feeling compelled to return to the scene? I'm not anymore.
For GOLFERS-Why do we keep going back and hitting the damned thing?I mean, Really! I have been trying to play this frustrating game for over 40 years, and I still Suck at it. BUT! It keeps calling me back, over and over...