How do I regain my self confidence?

  1. kevpola profile image61
    kevpolaposted 6 years ago

    How do I regain my self confidence?

  2. Shahid Bukhari profile image60
    Shahid Bukhariposted 6 years ago

    Read the "words" of your Question with all the care, you can muster ...
    In Understanding, what "you" think ... "is" the state of "your" confidence ...
    Its your Thinking ... what you have said ... about "re-gaining" your ... what you think ... is "lost" ... self confidence.

    If you do not Understand ... your own Question ... read again and again ... till
    you understand, what exactly you are asking ...
    Then read what I have written about your Question.

    Read on ...
    Till ... you "Clearly" understand ... what you mean by your Question
    and I mean, by my Written.

    Just to help you begin this arduous task ... let me give you a guideline ...

    The Three words, making up the core of your Question are, "LOST" ... "SELF" and "CONFIDENCE" !
    Meaning ... what "you think" ... about yourself, lacking ... "SELF CONFIDENCE" ...

    So ... It's you ... who thinks, that others are thinking ... what the "others"  cannot Think of you !

    My dear, its all in your "head" ...
    Just tell your Head ... that you do not Lack, Confidence ...
    Keep Reminding your Head ... that you do not lack Confidence ...
    Till it Understands.

  3. Sushma Webber profile image84
    Sushma Webberposted 6 years ago

    Hi Kevpola,
    There are times in our lives when we have to face ourselves and the challenges that life puts in our way. It is easy to lose our self-confidence. But we need to buck up and face the circumstances. First by accepting life as it is so that we do not waste time resisting, and then finding out ways to deal with ourselves.

    I have found that my confidence has improved in the last few days when I have decided to make small changes to my life and kept to my committment. For example, I decided I would meditate for 90 days. I have missed a day twice so far but I started again. The first time I managed to meditate for a month at a stretch. Second time I did it only for 11 days and missed a day. But I am starting from day one again.

    The result when I stuck to my discipline for a month was that now I am more confident about myself and feel I can achieve anything I put my mind to. I have started a 21-day Vegan Diet programme and have also decided to go for a walk every day.

    Another result is that I have decided to write regularly for Hubpages and also my blog. I have even created a new blog called 'Deliberate Practise' on yesterday. Not much content in it yet. Just took the first step to start writing regularly.

    This is how I gained confidence in myself. I hope you gain yours too.


This website uses cookies

As a user in the EEA, your approval is needed on a few things. To provide a better website experience, uses cookies (and other similar technologies) and may collect, process, and share personal data. Please choose which areas of our service you consent to our doing so.

For more information on managing or withdrawing consents and how we handle data, visit our Privacy Policy at:

Show Details
HubPages Device IDThis is used to identify particular browsers or devices when the access the service, and is used for security reasons.
LoginThis is necessary to sign in to the HubPages Service.
Google RecaptchaThis is used to prevent bots and spam. (Privacy Policy)
AkismetThis is used to detect comment spam. (Privacy Policy)
HubPages Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide data on traffic to our website, all personally identifyable data is anonymized. (Privacy Policy)
HubPages Traffic PixelThis is used to collect data on traffic to articles and other pages on our site. Unless you are signed in to a HubPages account, all personally identifiable information is anonymized.
Amazon Web ServicesThis is a cloud services platform that we used to host our service. (Privacy Policy)
CloudflareThis is a cloud CDN service that we use to efficiently deliver files required for our service to operate such as javascript, cascading style sheets, images, and videos. (Privacy Policy)
Google Hosted LibrariesJavascript software libraries such as jQuery are loaded at endpoints on the or domains, for performance and efficiency reasons. (Privacy Policy)
Google Custom SearchThis is feature allows you to search the site. (Privacy Policy)
Google MapsSome articles have Google Maps embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
Google ChartsThis is used to display charts and graphs on articles and the author center. (Privacy Policy)
Google AdSense Host APIThis service allows you to sign up for or associate a Google AdSense account with HubPages, so that you can earn money from ads on your articles. No data is shared unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
Google YouTubeSome articles have YouTube videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
VimeoSome articles have Vimeo videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
PaypalThis is used for a registered author who enrolls in the HubPages Earnings program and requests to be paid via PayPal. No data is shared with Paypal unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
Facebook LoginYou can use this to streamline signing up for, or signing in to your Hubpages account. No data is shared with Facebook unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
MavenThis supports the Maven widget and search functionality. (Privacy Policy)
Google AdSenseThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Google DoubleClickGoogle provides ad serving technology and runs an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Index ExchangeThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
SovrnThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Facebook AdsThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Amazon Unified Ad MarketplaceThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
AppNexusThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
OpenxThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Rubicon ProjectThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
TripleLiftThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Say MediaWe partner with Say Media to deliver ad campaigns on our sites. (Privacy Policy)
Remarketing PixelsWe may use remarketing pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to advertise the HubPages Service to people that have visited our sites.
Conversion Tracking PixelsWe may use conversion tracking pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to identify when an advertisement has successfully resulted in the desired action, such as signing up for the HubPages Service or publishing an article on the HubPages Service.
Author Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide traffic data and reports to the authors of articles on the HubPages Service. (Privacy Policy)
ComscoreComScore is a media measurement and analytics company providing marketing data and analytics to enterprises, media and advertising agencies, and publishers. Non-consent will result in ComScore only processing obfuscated personal data. (Privacy Policy)
Amazon Tracking PixelSome articles display amazon products as part of the Amazon Affiliate program, this pixel provides traffic statistics for those products (Privacy Policy)