How do you overcome shyness with your significant other's family?
I've been with my fiancé for 9 years and I'm still painfully shy to the point where I think his family thinks I'm being a sour puss. Is there anyone else out there with my problem and have you over come it?
I empathize with you Stacey. I used to be painfully shy to the point of walking with my head down, eyes down. The thought of going to a party was tantamount to being condemned to hell. Significant other's family parties were interminable challenges. It wasn't till I read somewhere that being a good conversationalist can be as simple as being a good listener. Most people, in conversations, are looking forward to their moment to speak. I learned a few open ended questions and decided to see how much I could learn about other people. I was so surprised how the flood gates opened and all I had to do was listen and every once in a while, ask another question. I was shocked to hear back from my boyfriend that so and so had said what a great conversationalist I was. The more I listened, the more I realized that everyone was really very similar to me, same worries, same concerns, same joys, same issues. I am happy to report that now, every one would say I am gregarious and outgoing, but to be honest, the shy girl still lurks right under the surface. Good luck dear!
by alexandriaruthk 5 years ago
How can you overcome shyness?Shy to speak out, and be the first one to initiate conversation, things like that. How can you overcome it?
by Admit 6 years ago
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