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   Drea Checoposted 18 months ago

   What do you think is the most hurtful experience from your childhood for your today adulthood?
   
   parents divorce?, bullying?, lack of affection or demonstration of affection??,being criticized or constantly judged ?,family emotional issues(neurotic, depressive, agressive environment)? , financial trouble at home??, perhaps others...

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   dashingscorpioposted 18 months ago

   
   
   Aside from verbal/physical abuse a lack of encouragement to pursue and support their dreams whatever they may be.
   Many parents have their own ideas of what (they want) their children to focus on, do, be, or invest their free time.
   Life is a (personal) journey! Too often parents forget this.
   Unintentionally they say things in order to shoot down or kill their dreams (that may stick with a person for life).
   Nurturing a child's self-esteem is the foundation for instilling confidence. If your own parents aren't in your corner it's a challenge to learn to ignore them and overcome other naysayers. Parents are expected to be a child's first mentors.
   Thankfully there are numerous "self-help" books and courses!

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      Drea Checoposted 18 months agoin reply to this

      Yes, I totally agree with you ,your past, as hard as it may have been , doesn't have to be a reflection of your future, it may be a long journey to overcome bad expierience but in the end we have the capacity to learn and grow.

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      dashingscorpioposted 18 months agoin reply to this

      "Don't let your (history) keep you from your (destiny)!
      - T.D. Jakes

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