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Are we really what we portray online?

  1. shashnk profile image59
    shashnkposted 11 months ago

    Are we really what we portray online?

    Real self v/s virtual self

  2. FatFreddysCat profile image99
    FatFreddysCatposted 11 months ago

    Yeah, I'm pretty much the same jaded, snarky, sarcastic @$#& in real life and online.

  3. Terrielynn1 profile image93
    Terrielynn1posted 10 months ago

    Yes, I am. Love me or leave me. Like the song says. I will survive. I am busy being me and don't have time to be some else. Have a good one.

  4. dashingscorpio profile image88
    dashingscorpioposted 10 months ago


    In many instances people feel (more free to be themselves) especially if they can remain anonymous!
    A lot of folks on various websites would never dream to say some of the things they post to another person's face. They don't have to be "politically correct" online.
    With regard to online dating sites lots of folks will act in accordance to what they think will draw more prospects. People also do this with "offline dating" as well.
    Not revealing everything about oneself or fudging didn't just start with the Internet.
    Everyone attempts to put their "best foot" forward to impress new people they want to associate with or possibly get hired for a job. They don't want to blow opportunities!
    Very few instantly open up their lives, hearts, thoughts, doubts and reveal themselves to people in person let alone online.
    To truly get to know someone you have to spend a great deal of time with them in person.
    Truth be told everyone has "secrets" that even their own family doesn't know about. It may take years for someone to figure who (they are)for them self!
    Essentially we all have "layers" we selectively reveal.
    With regard to websites like HubPages there is no real "upside" or good reason to falsely portray yourself.