Should I uderstand or is she full of it?

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  1. sabrina.estrada15 profile image58
    sabrina.estrada15posted 7 years ago

    Should I uderstand or is she full of it?

    I was at the gym today and was having a great day untill....
    I went to the sauna and met this girl, she was nice and very talkative at first. Then she brought up how men are dumb at spending money. I dont think that way, but she ws yelling about it. We even spoke how she use to go to jail and sleep in her car. She has alot of anger inside of her i could tell right off the back. Then I asked why she went to jail and she got so mad, and sad I look like I have been there several times. She even called me a bitch and I was ugly. I knew I had to let it go because I didnt want to fight at the gym .

  2. sabrina.estrada15 profile image58
    sabrina.estrada15posted 7 years ago

    okay there is more to the story... so i was soo angry and upset that I was shaking. I'm 24 and I dont fight unless I really have to but I felt bad cause she had no self respect and was acting crazy infront of everybody. She said I was even worth the time to go to jail for. She was talking how she wanted to throw me around and it was just sooo bad. I wish she would of touched me so I could put people like that in jail. Houston's crime has went up too much and its just not safe with people like that. But I dont let stuff like that get me down. I just believe she needs some kind of god in her life and she needs to stop feeling sorry for what she went through. Pain just makes you a stronger person. Deal with it and if not dont go around trying to fight everyone because maybe someday someone might follow you and hurt you worse.

  3. Mr. Happy profile image84
    Mr. Happyposted 7 years ago

    You touched a soft-spot with what seems to be not-so-bright of a person. Hostility on her part was probably bound to come in that circumstance. Dodge the donkeys and move on. Good luck.

  4. Christopher Floyd profile image57
    Christopher Floydposted 7 years ago

    Wow. I think you did the right thing by letting it go, but maybe you should let someone that works at the gym know. I doubt they'd like one of their customers behaving this way. Also, what makes a person look like they've been to jail? That was a ridiculous thing for her to say.

  5. Karonher profile image70
    Karonherposted 7 years ago

    It would be a good idea to avoid her in future. She seems very strange.

  6. BobbiRant profile image60
    BobbiRantposted 7 years ago

    Sounds like that woman is good at picking all the wrong men, not your fault.  You were right to let it drop.  She sounds bitter and also not your fault.  When we as women constantly concede to men, especially the wrong men, we pay the price if we don't stop that behavior.  She just thinks all men are that way but she hangs with the wrong ones, obviously.  Sad thing is, do most women know they are being used by some guys? Yes they do, yet in their desperation to be loved they still concede to that behavior or treatment and then they claim, later, they did not know. Of course they did.


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