Dont hate me because I'm beautiful? Dont hate me because Im not?

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H.C Porterposted 14 years ago
Do people really dislike others based on appearance? Do we pass judgment and pass over the opportunity to know someone because of their physical appearance? I’m not just referring to people we view as unattractive I’m also speaking of the people that we consider attractive. Is an attractive person penalized for being physically attractive just as often as an unattractive person?
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  elliot.dunnposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  people are definitely treated differently because of appearance. especially when it comes to relationships. i think all relationships begin with a sense of infatuation - you are physically attracted to someone, so you pursue them. you can't fall in love with a person solely based on appearance but there's a reason that Joe decided to go after the cheerleader and not the chess club girl...
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  Jeryposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I would answer yes, people (some people) dislike others based on their looks alone.
  
  Yes, some people will pass over the opportunity to know someone just because of their appearance.
  
  And, no I don't think a physically attractive person is penalized at all, I think attractiveness actually opens doors for those lucky people all the time. It's a real asset in my view.
  
  Here is a somewhat crude example, but true none-the-less:
  
  A guy is in a bar and has two women hitting on him, one a very attractive blond with nice parts all in the right places, and the other is a very homely woman who is flat chested, who does he choose to get to know better? Could he be basing his decision on looks alone?
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  H.C Porterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  So you don’t think that an ugly fat girl who comes in contact with a well proportioned girl- won’t penalize her? For example- There are 2 women being interviewed for a job- equally qualified one attractive the other is a little over weight and has a mustache-and horrible teeth. The interviewer is 100lbs over weight and was picked on by pretty people all through school...Who do you think will be offered the job???
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  Scott.Lifeposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Well in that case you have a point but in general I think it pays to be fit and attractive. That's the way of nature.
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  megs78posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  there has already been extensive research done on this subject and unfortunately, its true. attractive people are treated better, get jobs first, and in some cases make a lot more money. sad, but true.
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  Mishaposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Sad if you consider yourself not attractive. Reconsider, it's a lie.
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  Jeryposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I agree with Misha, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and that would include you. When you look at yourself in the mirror think good positive thoughts about your appearance, shoo the negative thoughts out of your mind. As far as I'm concerned everybody is beautiful in more ways than one.
  Physical beauty is very fleeting, it can be gone in an instant!
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  L. Andrew Marrposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I think we need a certain level of comfort to be able to function. If you think someone is ugly then you pass over the chance - if you think someone is beautiful then you are too nervous and pass over the chance.
  
  Swings and roundabouts really...
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  ScarletRyan1970posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Pretty and Beautiful people are great liers.
  Ugly people are genuine and honest.
  
  Scarlet.
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  tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I have beautiful friends that are great persons and I know some people that are ugly and mean
  Maybe you don't know much about life ?
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  ScarletRyan1970posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I know heaps about life and if ugly people were mean to you,You must of being a real B..ch to them with your patronizing friends.And no i am not an Ugly person i am a very beautiful human being both inside and out.
  
  Lol Scarlet.
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  wyanjenposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  That's an ugly thing to say, for a beautiful person...
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  tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this
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  rebekahELLEposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I think we've found a partner for maximus! it sounds like him and miss scarlet would get along just fine.
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  Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  With a comment like that Scarlet...shows me that you aren't a beautiful person inside. No beautiful person would respond so rudely like that to another person!
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  ScarletRyan1970posted 14 years agoin reply to this
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  tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  'Live in the real World Doll.
  Welcome to the Rude world. '
  I never said those words. You put them there on purpose i think scarlett !
  you make me laugh !
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  Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Love how she just requotes what I said saying nothing in response?
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  H.C Porterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  for someone who knows heaps about life-that was an extremely rude and unjustifiable assumption-not to mention an ugly response to another human being. No matter what the wrapping paper looks like-its what beauty lies within...
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  Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Amen H.C!
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  tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  thanks H C Potter !
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Crazdwriterposted 14 years ago
People passed judgement on me all the time when I was younger...because I wore glasses and I'm weird. But hey I wear contacts now, I'm married to a great guy, have the best of friends, and I am using my weirdness to write stories and make something out of myself. So I forgive them for their insults and alienating me when I was a kid.

But I myself don't pass judegment because I know how it feels.
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Flightkeeperposted 14 years ago
We all have our own crosses to bear, no one gets away with anything.
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Mishaposted 14 years ago
I don;t hate anybody, but if you expect me to equally like a pretty nice looking young girl and fat nasty old guy, you are out of luck
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  Flightkeeperposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Misha we already knew you were a dirty old man.
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  Mishaposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Oh, you are sooooo close to truth
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H.C Porterposted 14 years ago
What about the ugly duckling syndrom... When the chess club geek becomes the head cheerleader? Does it make people rethink things? Are people such as that more drawn to the outcasts in us all or do they transform into one of those jerks that use to cut them down and belittle them?

Someone told me once-and it really pissed me off that if you are unattractive you have to be overly caring and nice, or you will never have a friend... But if you are fortunate to be physically beautiful you get away with more and have wiggle room to be a b*tch---because you are hot and people will put up with ill behavior from a hot girl. But a mean ugly girl---will never have a friend... Does anyone think this is true? I think it is wrong but not sure if it is true or not?
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  Mishaposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Life is not fair, at least not in that sense. However, if you consider what a hell of a life those valuing only physical attractiveness usually put themselves in, life becomes fair
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  H.C Porterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  karma can come back and bite u in the butt-cant it?
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  rebekahELLEposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I wonder how long it will take for maximus to find this thread.
  
  I think everyone whether physically beautiful or 'ugly' has to figure out how they project themselves to the world. I've looked at really beautiful women before and saw 'emptiness'.
  and saw beauty in someone not so genetically blessed in the beauty department.
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  Jeryposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Yes I do.
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  wyanjenposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  It's true and it sucks because I am not attractive OR overly caring.
  I won't change who I am to compensate what I look like.
  CW: Are you getting ready for your adventure?
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  Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I'm ready! Kinda...sorta....lmao
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  wyanjenposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Well I'll say again: good luck. It's an awesome thing to do
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Scott.Lifeposted 14 years ago
Every woman I've ever approached was attractive to me. Is this fair, probably not. But I want someone attractive. Do I judge people by how they look. Not really but I do decide what is attractive to me personally by how someone looks. I am often amused by online dating sights where women hit up the good looking attractive guys, but are appalled when men are mostly interested in the same in women.If its okay for you as a woman to not want a fat lazy unattractive man, why is it considered shallow for me to want a woman that weighs less then I do? Besides the fact that it may mean she has confidence, self-respect, and is outgoing, I could see how those things would be negatives for me.
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Crazdwriterposted 14 years ago
But there are hope for those who are what some consider "ugly"...look at me I'm not that pertty and yet I've found a man to complete me. I love him and he loves me completely.
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  Flightkeeperposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Shut up you are not ugly! You're pretty and you're just trying to get compliments. Shame on you.
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  Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  No I'm not trying to get compliments...I am stating a fact I am not that pretty and I still found happiness.
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  Flightkeeperposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Well then, you're a living example of karma's a bitch!
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  Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I am?
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  Mishaposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  LOL You ARE pretty! Your previous pic was just gorgeous.
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  tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this
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  Mishaposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  LOL You are quite pretty yourself
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  tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Thanks !
  but don't flirt with me .
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  Mishaposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Why?
  
  I flirt with every women around
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  tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I'M NOT EVERY WOMAN AROUND !
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  Mishaposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Absolutely, every woman is unique. And that makes the whole thing interesting.
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  tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Always with the last word !
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  blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Hell yes they are Misha amen to that.Beauty is from within!!!!!!! Now Mish what would u like for breakfast this morning sweet cheeks???? xo
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  Mishaposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Good morning Deb I wish you have a good day ♥
  
  Sorry, have to pass on a breakfast today, I am feeling quite bad and don;t have any appetite
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  blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Damn Mish that sucks, hope it soon passes. Take it easy today.!! :
  Dont worry tomorrow is another day.
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  drej2522posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Crazdwriter does seem to be a bit wacky! I like it! Then again, I believe in order to be a good writer you have to be weird and somewhat nuts!...who wants to be 'normal' anyway?
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  Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I'm not wacky...it is just who I am..I do not believe myself pretty
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  drej2522posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  oh, i was putting wacky and weird in the same category. sorry there.
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  Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  lol drej get it right I'm werid not whacky hehehe you silly!
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  H.C Porterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  perfectly flawed in each and every way ....
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  ScarletRyan1970posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Nuts and Ugly make good writers.Ah ah ah.
  Amen for that.And you need a man to make you feel good about yourself.
  Jesus
  i've heard it all tonight.
  
  Scarlet.
  
  Scarlet.
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  tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  How bitter and shallow is your life, that make you say so rude and nasty things. It shows you're not a happy person !
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  Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  At least I don't hide behind a fake picture and I am married to man who loves me for who I am and thinks I am sexy. What is your deal, Scarlet?
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  ScarletRyan1970posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  My deal my dear is, that i have three men on the go,Not all at once though as they would be devasted if they found out that i was in Love with three beautiful men at the same time.
  I just could'nt bear to wake up to the same boring face for the rest of my life.
  Why i am never bored.Life is too short and this my dear is no rehersal in life.
  I am very happy that your husband thinks you are sexy.Does he think you are sexy or does he believe you are sexy.There is a difference my dear.
  
  Lol Scarlet.
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  H.C Porterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  darling--if you want to keep passing stereotypes-as you are assumptions on peoples character based on their passion for writing...Your ignorance perfectly matches the bitterness you have within.
  i do not consider myself ugly-i do enjoy expressing myself in my writing-Im not an idiot-nor am i a b*tch (most days)-and i dont need a man to make me whole(i just like having his cute butt there to open the mayo jar and take out the trash )...
  
  Maybe you need a bit of a nap-your rationalization seems a little clouded to me? Or maybe you need a man ;O
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  sneakorocksolidposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  You're great looking but you look like you hit. I already have one of those.
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  Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  dammit sneak how did you know that about me? lol my husband and I are always getting into play fights like that hehehe
  
  Oh and your chair is comfy too
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  sneakorocksolidposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I do pester my wife, the poor woman, and she loves to play fight! Although she has said from the first date she could kick my butt if she really wanted to! I just tell her to, "Sit down pip-squeak!" and it's on again!
  
  You obviously love your guy and enjoy flirting with him.
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  Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I still get butterflies in my stomach when I am around him...and yes I love flirting with him.and even more like teasing him hehehe
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  sneakorocksolidposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Thats awesome!
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  H.C Porterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  growing up i was the geek in the corner with braces/no upper body/ glasses/ uncontrolled red hair and my mother wouldnt let me shave until I was 16...LOL... But i never doubted when people were my friends-why they were. And i always new i earned what I had...
  
  I grew into my looks-learned to control the hair/lost the medal gear in my mouth/ discovered contacts---and although i developed somewhat late in comparison to others/I got the boobs...
  I interviewed for a job with a male supervisor/ i got the job...not even 2 months later-i found out why i got the job-it wasnt because i was qualified/its because i was 'layable'-i ended up telling my supervisor to leave me the hell alone and go home to his pregnant wife...i was fired 3 weeks later. and that is not the first time i have been in a situation at a job that makes me feel and think-is that all that anyone will ever hire me for...none of them bother to look at my portfolio or even my eyes during the interview... wish i was the geek in the corner again...
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  Flightkeeperposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Another living example of karma's a bitch.
  
  By the way, not to be rude but...shut up we should all have your problems!
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  H.C Porterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  lol...okay, but only once i find a job
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  Flightkeeperposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  HC, bring a tape recorder or if your phone has a voice recorder use that on the next situation some jerk tries to take advantage of you. Use it to sue his dumb ass and the company.
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  H.C Porterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  how about text messages and IM of the drunken jerk putting in writing all that he thinks when he thinks of me...
  all it got me was a pissed off husband after he picked up my phone to see text messages at 2am-and the assurance of unemployment which pissed him off and he called Child Protective Services on me- causing an investigation after he accused me of being a doped up drug pushing mother... now that the investigation is over- i am trying to find a lawyer to give me my options... i hope his karma stings when it comes back to him...
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  Flightkeeperposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Sorry to hear that your husband blames you HC because that seems terribly unfair.
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  H.C Porterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  My husband chilled out after i explained everything-
  now we are just upset with my ex-employer calling CPS on me and since we are married on my husband...
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  Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  ooo I see karma really biting him in the arse! and I hope it does it soon.
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  Mishaposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Your husband called them on you?
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  H.C Porterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  god no... if he did-he would no longer be my husband...lol
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  Mishaposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  That's quite a relief LOL
  
  Since you have a good backing, you can weather it
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  H.C Porterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  it was a scary situation having CPS and the police showing up on your door step on a Saturday afternoon...Looking at your children-at your home-and giving you a on the spot drug test after an hour of questions... I would not do that to anyone. I feel as if he (my ex boss) was trying to take my children from me-and 1 completely bogus complaint could impact our lives that way... but when they found no drugs in the home and none in our systems...the case was closed. but i still believe he needs to own up and take responsibility for filing a false report...
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  Scott.Lifeposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Filing a false report is a crime but its up to you to press the issue with the local DA's office.
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  Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  You learned to control your hair? dang it...I still need to learn that aspect lmao
  
  And I am sorry that you went through that kind of crap with a supervisor. No one should have to deal with that kind of harressment.
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  Mishaposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  LOL You have a strategic advantage - use it and enjoy it!
  
  Just make sure that you like those who hire you and they don't have pregnant wives or girlfriends
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prettydarkhorseposted 14 years ago
Maybe it depends on what your objectives are with that person, for a friend, anything goes,good looking or not,as long as they are nice and all, but for a partner, at first you might be memerized by good looks but how about the character,the relationship might not last, so for a partner beauty and good character is more ok, added bonus, but dont have the mistake of just choosing because of physical characteristics.

When I was younger, i have used my beauty to get away with some privileges and attention, but it is just shallow thing. I realized that you can olny fool people for a short period of time...nothing compared to a beuatiful character, but if you have both it is alright.
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sneakorocksolidposted 14 years ago
My son's a great looking guy but if he's in my chair, I hate him! So I jump him and I tickle him till he screams for his Mom! I don't care if your pretty or handsome, stay out of my chair! Grrrrrrrr!
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  Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  LMAO *sits in your chair*
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prettydarkhorseposted 14 years ago
lolol, he looks like the daddy...
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Flightkeeperposted 14 years ago
Tantrum and Misha sitting on a tree...

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  tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  
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  Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
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  Linda Myshrallposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Now, THAT was funny!
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Crazdwriterposted 14 years ago
You and me both H.C....stupid job market
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Crazdwriterposted 14 years ago
okay I have to ask Flightkeeper where did you get your pic..it is soooo cool! I loved watching the Munsters!
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  Flightkeeperposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Google images, search for lily munster, filter for reusable. EZ PZ
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  Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  sweet! I miss that TV show a lot of the new ones suck lol
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  Flightkeeperposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  There will always be The Munsters reruns somewhere on the chanel. I thought the coolest thing about that show was Spot under the stairs. He would have come in handy from time to time.
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  Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Oh yea I agree there Spot would be a great pet to have around we can feed the spammers to him lol
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Crazdwriterposted 14 years ago
At that point I would drag in the pregnant wife and tell her what was going on
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Star Witnessposted 14 years ago
Actually, the research follows that the more attractive you are, the better things are for you...jobs and other things are always more easily within reach. Up to a certain point. People who are considered 'too' good looking also run across something I'd call the intimidation factor. (This according to those studies someone referenced.)

And anyway, I think all of us know things are more complicated than a simple duality. IE, yes it is true that women have an issue with 'the pretty girl' sometimes. And no, she really has no wriggle room to be nasty among those women. If she has a couple flaws, too, perhaps, you can bet those same women are on them like the plague.

Straight men of course think being physically appealing is very important...I've noticed this especially, however, among men who are not considered traditionally attractive themselves. Seems like they also then place the beauty quotient on women. Which is kind of weird...like having an attractive woman is to make up for their lack of attractiveness somehow. Some women (especially the less self-assured ones) fall for it, especially if they value $$ and the man has that. Most women who value their own satisfaction do not got for it.

I've seen situations where overweight and unattractive was the norm, and everything is easier for those people. Game theory (A Beautiful Mind), even proposed that although everybody wants the gorgeous blonde (supposedly), people choose someone they don't think will reject them... And though I don't really necessarily believe that...there are huge and varying factors in preferences of any sort. For instance, intelligence and expression there of--in appearance and demeanor--may be paramount for some. Relatively unattractive and/or overweight people who have style and are neat, clean and competent I think are always judged better than sloppy, stupid and not-so-bright physically attractive people. At least at a certain professional job level.
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  Flightkeeperposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Oh, so that explains Maximus.
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  Star Witnessposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  lol He's a head case, poor boy. Believes every stereotype ever told him.
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  Flightkeeperposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I couldn't understand it. He reminded me of the awkward but somewhat smart geek guy in high school who had poor social skills and then just got creepier all through college. But he knew how to stir us women up!
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  Star Witnessposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I think on purpose, . Doubt that is really even his photo...but who knows. He reminded me of the one guy from Friends, truly. What was his name again..?
  
  I think he stirred women up because such guys DO exist. Luckily, better ones, do, too. lol
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  Flightkeeperposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Thank goodness
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zadrobiposted 14 years ago
Silly capricious women hehehe
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Flightkeeperposted 14 years ago
Don't worry Zach, you are definitely one of the better ones!
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zadrobiposted 14 years ago
Thank you, FK
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zadrobiposted 14 years ago
People are people. Amen.
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Mishaposted 14 years ago
He-he, we got a new troll
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  tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  yeah! Isn't she cute ?
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  Mishaposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Oh, I loved the movie, it is so romantic
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  zadrobiposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I wonder what it costs to pass the bridge
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  Mishaposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Arm and leg I guess
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  Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I am so not giving her mine thank you!
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  rebekahELLEposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  trolls are from ireland
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  Beth100posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  But I think she missed her bus....
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  rebekahELLEposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  she fell off the bridge
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  tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Poor troll !
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  Beth100posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Maybe she met the Billy Goats! lol lol lmao
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  Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Hmmm...if there are ppl like that hanging out in Ireland maybe I don't want to visit after all
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  tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Irish people are very nice. Maybe she was born with flaws
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  Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  this is true Tantrum lol very true...hopefully by the time I save up money and hubby and i can go on our honeymoon to Ireland she'll be gone!
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  Beth100posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Hope the mold was broken (or is that mould???)
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Crazdwriterposted 14 years ago
And to think I welcomed her here back when she was more of a nebwie. Wow! And then she goes and attacks me. can someone take the knife out of my back please?
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  tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  It's an ilusion crazd ! she hasn't the power !!
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  Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Phew! Glad to know that Tantrum glad to know that!
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Mishaposted 14 years ago
Oh girls, if you continue in this vein, this thread is guaranteed to be closed
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  Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  She started it
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  tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Yes! Enough of her ! She's not that important !
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  Beth100posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  You are correct Misha. I'd better back off or I'll be banned for a few days...can't have that! Nice reminder. Thank you.
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  rebekahELLEposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  oh, we're done misha, she was just really rude, nothing we said was as rude as she has been tonight.
  
  i need to finish cleaning the kitchen and go to bed
  good night all.
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  Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Good night rebekah chat with ya later.
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zadrobiposted 14 years ago
Yeah... she's long since absconded to whence she came.
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  rebekahELLEposted 14 years agoin reply to this
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tantrumposted 14 years ago
IGNORE HER !
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  Mishaposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Sound advice. Don't feed the trolls
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  ScarletRyan1970posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  And don't feed the Lessies.
  
  Lol Scarlet.
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  Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  HEAR HEAR!
  
  n-e-ways...how is everyone else doing this fine evening?
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  drej2522posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Peachy!
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  Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Good to hear drej...anything exciting going down this weekend?
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  drej2522posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I'm sure I'll be dressing up as something this year. I was a member of the Fantastic 4 last year! You?
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  Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Dressing up as I always do. I will always dress up until I die and the pic I have up is who I am going to be again this year... The Brat by Amy Brown my all time FAV artist!
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  H.C Porterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  last time i dressed up-was three years ago---i conceived my son that night...LOL---damn that costume...J/K LMAO...
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  Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  lol bad costume bad...you did throw that one away right?
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  H.C Porterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  hell no! its in my closet for a rainy day
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  ScarletRyan1970posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Why I'D Rather be a troll..ey Dolley
  Than a Yanky Doodle with no brain of their own.
  Comform and be dull!You are like sheep that have to follow each other around in a herd.
  Goodnight and Love you all
  
  Lol Scarlet xxx
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  H.C Porterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  you are a silly, sad predictable woman
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  ScarletRyan1970posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Who is MAX?
  I would be very grateful if you guys and girls could
  direct me in his direction.
  Why Thankyou.
  
  Scarlet.
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wyanjenposted 14 years ago
good lord
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Mishaposted 14 years ago
Just fine thank you. Trying to decide whether to do dished right now, or half an hour later
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Crazdwriterposted 14 years ago
or maybe tomorrow?
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Mishaposted 14 years ago
Nah, my wife gets up way earlier than me, I don't have tomorrow option.
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  Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  well then do them quickly right now and get it over with
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  Mishaposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  The problem is - I am a kind of guy who always pushes any job to the last moment
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  Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  HAHA you sound like me Misha I do the same thing
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  drej2522posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  procrastination...love it! hate it! it's that kind of relationship with me!
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  Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Hopefully it won't want to befriend me next month when I write the novel in a month. eek! lol
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H.C Porterposted 14 years ago
Ive only been on HubPages a week---but Im just wondering if the comments such as the ones that have come from Max and Scarlet are as pretty typical-LOL...
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  Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Typical...not really. we actaully have NICE people on here. I have no idea where they came from but In my 3 months they have yet been the rudest of the rude bunch!
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  H.C Porterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Glad i could witness the behavior...LOL
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  tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  You won't get it worse than that
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  tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  You better ignore them ! They feed on the answers. that's all the life they have
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  tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Lol ! Pretty typical from that kind of hubbers !
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  wyanjenposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  They pop in, and then pop back out again...
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H.C Porterposted 14 years ago
Scarlet---Take a Midol and chill out...no need for nastiness..
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wyanjenposted 14 years ago
I have to laugh when I see that - troll

In Michigan, if you live in the Lower Peninsula, you are called a troll because you live under the (Mackinaw) bridge.

So I am always calling myself a troll
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  H.C Porterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Thanks for the fan mail--and the welcome ;D
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  wyanjenposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  You're welcome. Your hubs look very interesting, I will be checking them out. When it's not so late LOL
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quietnessandtrustposted 14 years ago
For a minute there I thought I was in the religious forum

Good fights in here to.

Anyplace Tantrum is....tantrums happen.

So carry on now mates
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  tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I'm done now, quietness !
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Crazdwriterposted 14 years ago
nice H.C nice! by the way what was it?
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  H.C Porterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  LOL-- I was dressed up to be an Angel-the costume was a form fitted white vinyl skirt/corset thing...white fishnets...white ankle boots and wings to complete the illusion. LMAO
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  H.C Porterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  it was one of those nights that you know you are looking good and let off that "im one sexy b*tch" vibe for all to notice. Would have been great if I didnt end up knocked up and hung over after wards
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Crazdwriterposted 14 years ago
Very nice H.C very nice...I think it's time you start dressing up again It's not Halloween unless you dress up
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  H.C Porterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  you are correct--Hmmm-- for halloween its traditional to be something scary or something that is polar opposite from what your personality is?
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  Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Naw be whatever you want to be...I'm going to be something that speaks volumes of a part of my personality
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  H.C Porterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  not sure what to throw together...Guess i might be dusting off the ol Angel get up after all...LOL... Been putting together my son and daughters costumes for what feels like the past month... Cross eyed with the needle and thread-so not about ready to make something new for myself...LOL
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Crazdwriterposted 14 years ago
Angel it is! What are you making for your son and daughter?
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  H.C Porterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  She is a fairy- she is only one and is a saucy little b*tch already, she had preference to which shoes to wear-and let me know what she thought of my choice... (LOVE IT)and he is a scare crow (he saw one on TV and kept nagging me about it--LOL)
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  Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  only 1 and acts like that already? Oh My dear I will definitely be praying hard for you when she hits her teen years LMAO
  
  and hey we'll be fairies together yay hehehe
  and how cute a scarecrow. I hope you'll post pics in a hub after Halloween
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  H.C Porterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I will, without a doubt---any reason to show off the munchkins
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wyanjenposted 14 years ago
CW - you do not think you are pretty.
So I think you are honest. Altho you are pretty to us.
May I put my real face up?
It is bleecchh but I cant tell if is just the pic or my weirdly shaped head
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  Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  wyanjen you picture is just fine! You have a wonderful smile and eyes full of life that would make anyone smile. I smiled looking at your picture.
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  wyanjenposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  awww. Thanks. I took it off after a couple weeks, thought I was scaring away the customers.
  I'm shy of the camera, so this is the only shot I have of me.
  You are sweet, thanks
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  Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I'm shy of the camera too but everyone pushes me in front of it and makes me take pics. I say the camera can catch your true feelings so if you look closely to mine sometimes you can see my emotions. In this one I am playing bratty
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H.C Porterposted 14 years ago
Good Night All... I have some very non important things that I could probably put off-but would rather just get done while there is silence in my home...
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drej2522posted 14 years ago
good night, H.C...Love you...I mean, what?
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  H.C Porterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  LMAO---nite
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drej2522posted 14 years ago
Crazdwriter: what's your book about anyway?
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  Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Stuff! sorry couldn't resist I'm a smartass i'm afraid. It is a young adult story based on a high school in California that charades as a regular school but it isn't...it is a school that teaches teens to become demon hunters.
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  drej2522posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  lovely school...that DOES sound interesting. It's a good genre to tap into right about now.
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  Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  It seriously came to me in a dream...I dreamt up one scene and it was great...I hope that I get to dream more of it soon.
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Crazdwriterposted 14 years ago
Good night H.C chat with you later and yea get the stuff done now so it isn't bugging you lol
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drej2522posted 14 years ago
i heard they are usually the best source...dreams that is
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Crazdwriterposted 14 years ago
They are...I never really paid attention to my dreams thinking them weird and all..but when I took Writing Seminar in HS and had to keep a dream journal I was like OOO OOo I can write about that...or that...and that too. I still keep a dream journal to this day
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drej2522posted 14 years ago
hmmm, maybe I should start doing that...I always forget my dreams.
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Crazdwriterposted 14 years ago
Well try it out...find a journal that you like, put it beside your bed with a pen and when you wake up write what you do remember
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