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Dont hate me because I'm beautiful? Dont hate me because Im not?

  1. H.C Porter profile image78
    H.C Porterposted 7 years ago

    Do people really dislike others based on appearance? Do we pass judgment and pass over the opportunity to know someone because of their physical appearance? I’m not just referring to people we view as unattractive I’m also speaking of the people that we consider attractive. Is an attractive person penalized for being physically attractive just as often as an unattractive person?

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      elliot.dunnposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      people are definitely treated differently because of appearance.  especially when it comes to relationships.  i think all relationships begin with a sense of infatuation - you are physically attracted to someone, so you pursue them.  you can't fall in love with a person solely based on appearance but there's a reason that Joe decided to go after the cheerleader and not the chess club girl...

    2. Jery profile image58
      Jeryposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I would answer yes, people (some people) dislike others based on their looks alone.

      Yes, some people will pass over the opportunity to know someone just because of their appearance.

      And, no I don't think a physically attractive person is penalized at all, I think attractiveness actually opens doors for those lucky people all the time. It's a real asset in my view.

      Here is a somewhat crude example, but true none-the-less:

      A guy is in a bar and has two women hitting on him, one a very attractive blond with nice parts all in the right places, and the other is a very homely woman who is flat chested, who does he choose to get to know better? Could he be basing his decision on looks alone?

      1. H.C Porter profile image78
        H.C Porterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        So you don’t think that an ugly fat girl who comes in contact with a well proportioned girl- won’t penalize her? For example- There are 2 women being interviewed for a job- equally qualified one attractive the other is a little over weight and has a mustache-and horrible teeth. The interviewer is 100lbs over weight and was picked on by pretty people all through school...Who do you think will be offered the job???

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          Scott.Lifeposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Well in that case you have a point but in general I think it pays to be fit and attractive. That's the way of nature.

        2. megs78 profile image60
          megs78posted 7 years ago in reply to this

          there has already been extensive research done on this subject and unfortunately, its true.  attractive people are treated better, get jobs first, and in some cases make a lot more money.  sad, but true.

          1. Misha profile image74
            Mishaposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            Sad if you consider yourself not attractive. Reconsider, it's a lie. smile

            1. Jery profile image58
              Jeryposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              I agree with Misha, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and that would include you. When you look at yourself in the mirror think good positive thoughts about your appearance, shoo the negative thoughts out of your mind. As far as I'm concerned everybody is beautiful in more ways than one.
              Physical beauty is very fleeting, it can be gone in an instant!

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      L. Andrew Marrposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I think we need a certain level of comfort to be able to function. If you think someone is ugly then you pass over the chance - if you think someone is beautiful then you are too nervous and pass over the chance.

      Swings and roundabouts really...

    4. ScarletRyan1970 profile image48
      ScarletRyan1970posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Pretty and Beautiful people are great liers.
      Ugly people are genuine and honest.

      Scarlet.

      1. tantrum profile image59
        tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        yikes I have beautiful friends that are great persons and I know some people  that are ugly and mean
        Maybe you don't know much about life ? yikes

        1. ScarletRyan1970 profile image48
          ScarletRyan1970posted 7 years ago in reply to this

          I know heaps about life and if ugly people were mean to you,You must of being a real B..ch to them with your patronizing friends.And no i am not an Ugly person i am a very beautiful human being both inside and out.

          Lol Scarlet.

          1. wyanjen profile image87
            wyanjenposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            That's an ugly thing to say, for a beautiful person...

            1. tantrum profile image59
              tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this
              1. rebekahELLE profile image87
                rebekahELLEposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                I think we've found a partner for maximus! it sounds like him and miss scarlet would get along just fine. big_smile

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            Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            With a comment like that Scarlet...shows me that you aren't a beautiful person inside. No beautiful person would respond so rudely like that to another person!

            1. ScarletRyan1970 profile image48
              ScarletRyan1970posted 7 years ago in reply to this
              1. tantrum profile image59
                tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                'Live in the real World Doll.
                Welcome to the Rude world. '
                I never said those words. You put them there on purpose i think scarlett !
                lol you make me laugh ! lol lol

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                  Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                  Love how she just requotes what I said saying nothing in response?

          3. H.C Porter profile image78
            H.C Porterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            for someone who knows heaps about life-that was an extremely rude and unjustifiable assumption-not to mention an ugly response to another human being. No matter what the wrapping paper looks like-its what beauty lies within...

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              Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              Amen H.C!

            2. tantrum profile image59
              tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              thanks H C Potter ! smile

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    Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago

    People passed judgement on me all the time when I was younger...because I wore glasses and I'm weird. But hey I wear contacts now, I'm married to a great guy, have the best of friends, and I am using my weirdness to write stories and make something out of myself. So I forgive them for their insults and alienating me when I was a kid. smile


    But I myself don't pass judegment because I know how it feels.

  3. Flightkeeper profile image72
    Flightkeeperposted 7 years ago

    We all have our own crosses to bear, no one gets away with anything.

  4. Misha profile image74
    Mishaposted 7 years ago

    I don;t hate anybody, but if you expect me to equally like a pretty nice looking young girl and fat nasty old guy, you are out of luck smile

    1. Flightkeeper profile image72
      Flightkeeperposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Misha we already knew you were a dirty old man.

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    Flightkeeperposted 7 years ago

    lol

    1. Misha profile image74
      Mishaposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Oh, you are sooooo close to truth sad

  6. H.C Porter profile image78
    H.C Porterposted 7 years ago

    What about the ugly duckling syndrom... When the chess club geek becomes the head cheerleader? Does it make people rethink things? Are people such as that more drawn to the outcasts in us all or do they transform into one of those jerks that use to cut them down and belittle them?

    Someone told me once-and it really pissed me off that if you are unattractive you have to be overly caring and nice, or you will never have a friend... But if you are fortunate to be physically beautiful you get away with more and have wiggle room to be a b*tch---because you are hot and people will put up with ill behavior from a hot girl. But a mean ugly girl---will never have a friend... Does anyone think this is true? I think it is wrong but not sure if it is true or not?

    1. Misha profile image74
      Mishaposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Life is not fair, at least not in that sense. However, if you consider what a hell of a life those valuing only physical attractiveness usually put themselves in, life becomes fair smile

      1. H.C Porter profile image78
        H.C Porterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        karma can come back and bite u in the butt-cant it? smile

    2. rebekahELLE profile image87
      rebekahELLEposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I wonder how long it will take for maximus to find this thread. wink

      I think everyone whether physically beautiful or 'ugly' has to figure out how they project themselves to the world.  I've looked at really beautiful women before and saw 'emptiness'.
      and saw beauty in someone not so genetically blessed in the beauty department.

    3. Jery profile image58
      Jeryposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Yes I do.

      1. wyanjen profile image87
        wyanjenposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        It's true and it sucks because I am not attractive OR overly caring. lol
        I won't change who I am to compensate what I look like.
        CW: Are you getting ready for your adventure?

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          Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          I'm ready! Kinda...sorta....lmao

          1. wyanjen profile image87
            wyanjenposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            Well I'll say again: good luck. It's an awesome thing to do wink

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    Scott.Lifeposted 7 years ago

    Every woman I've ever approached was attractive to me. Is this fair, probably not. But I want someone attractive. Do I judge people by how they look. Not really but I do decide what is attractive to me personally by how someone looks. I am often amused by online dating sights where women hit up the good looking attractive guys, but are appalled when men are mostly interested in the same in women.If its okay for you as a woman to not want a fat lazy unattractive man, why is it considered shallow for me to want a woman that weighs less then I do? Besides the fact that it may mean she has confidence, self-respect, and is outgoing, I could see how those things would be negatives for me.

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    Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago

    But there are hope for those who are what some consider "ugly"...look at me I'm not that pertty and yet I've found a man to complete me. I love him and he loves me completely.

    1. Flightkeeper profile image72
      Flightkeeperposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Shut up you are not ugly! You're pretty and you're just trying to get compliments. Shame on you.

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        Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        No I'm not trying to get compliments...I am stating a fact I am not that pretty and I still found happiness.

        1. Flightkeeper profile image72
          Flightkeeperposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Well then, you're a living example of karma's a bitch!

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            Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            I am?

        2. Misha profile image74
          Mishaposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          LOL You ARE pretty! Your previous pic was just gorgeous. smile

          1. tantrum profile image59
            tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this
            1. Misha profile image74
              Mishaposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              LOL You are quite pretty yourself smile

              1. tantrum profile image59
                tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                Thanks ! big_smile
                but don't flirt with me . lol

                1. Misha profile image74
                  Mishaposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                  Why? yikes

                  I flirt with every women around smile

                  1. tantrum profile image59
                    tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                    I'M NOT EVERY WOMAN AROUND !

        3. drej2522 profile image84
          drej2522posted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Crazdwriter does seem to be a bit wacky! I like it! Then again, I believe in order to be a good writer you have to be weird and somewhat nuts!...who wants to be 'normal' anyway?

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            Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            I'm not wacky...it is just who I am..I do not believe myself pretty

            1. drej2522 profile image84
              drej2522posted 7 years ago in reply to this

              oh, i was putting wacky and weird in the same category. sorry there.

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                Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                lol drej get it right I'm werid not whacky hehehe you silly!

          2. H.C Porter profile image78
            H.C Porterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            perfectly flawed in each and every way smile....

          3. ScarletRyan1970 profile image48
            ScarletRyan1970posted 7 years ago in reply to this

            Nuts and Ugly make good writers.Ah ah ah.
            Amen for that.And you need a man to make you feel good about yourself.
            Jesus
            i've heard it all tonight.

            Scarlet.






            Scarlet.

            1. tantrum profile image59
              tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              How bitter and shallow is your life, that make you say so rude and nasty things. It shows you're not a happy person ! sad

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              Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              At least I don't hide behind a fake picture and I am married to man who loves me for who I am and thinks I am sexy. What is your deal, Scarlet?

              1. ScarletRyan1970 profile image48
                ScarletRyan1970posted 7 years ago in reply to this

                My deal my dear is, that i have three men on the go,Not all at once though as they would be devasted if they found out that i was in Love with three beautiful men at the same time.
                I just could'nt bear to wake up to the same boring face for the rest of my life.
                Why i am never bored.Life is too short and this my dear is no rehersal in life.
                I am very happy that your husband thinks you are sexy.Does he think you are sexy or does he believe you are sexy.There is a difference my dear.

                Lol Scarlet.

            3. H.C Porter profile image78
              H.C Porterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              darling--if you want to keep passing stereotypes-as you are assumptions on peoples character based on their passion for writing...Your ignorance perfectly matches the bitterness you have within.
              i do not consider myself ugly-i do enjoy expressing myself in my writing-Im not an idiot-nor am i a b*tch (most days)-and i dont need a man to make me whole(i just like having his cute butt there to open the mayo jar and take out the trash smile )...

              Maybe you need a bit of a nap-your rationalization seems a little clouded to me? Or maybe you need a man ;O

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      sneakorocksolidposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      You're great looking but you look like you hit. I already have one of those.

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        Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        dammit sneak how did you know that about me? lol my husband and I are always getting into play fights like that hehehe


        Oh and your chair is comfy too lol

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          sneakorocksolidposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          I do pester my wife, the poor woman, and she loves to play fight! Although she has said from the first date she could kick my butt if she really wanted to! I just tell her to, "Sit down pip-squeak!" and it's on again!

          You obviously love your guy and enjoy flirting with him.

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            Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            I still get butterflies in my stomach when I am around him...and yes I love flirting with him.and even more like teasing him hehehe

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              sneakorocksolidposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              Thats awesome!smile

    3. H.C Porter profile image78
      H.C Porterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      growing up i was the geek in the corner with braces/no upper body/ glasses/ uncontrolled red hair and my mother wouldnt let me shave until I was 16...LOL... But i never doubted when people were my friends-why they were. And i always new i earned what I had...

      I grew into my looks-learned to control the hair/lost the medal gear in my mouth/ discovered contacts---and although i developed somewhat late in comparison to others/I got the boobs...
      I interviewed for a job with a male supervisor/ i got the job...not even 2 months later-i found out why i got the job-it wasnt because i was qualified/its because i was 'layable'-i ended up telling my supervisor to leave me the hell alone and go home to his pregnant wife...i was fired 3 weeks later. and that is not the first time i have been in a situation at a job that makes me feel and think-is that all that anyone will ever hire me for...none of them bother to look at my portfolio or even my eyes during the interview... wish i was the geek in the corner again...smile

      1. Flightkeeper profile image72
        Flightkeeperposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Another living example of karma's a bitch.

        By the way, not to be rude but...shut up we should all have your problems!

        1. H.C Porter profile image78
          H.C Porterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          lol...okay, but only once i find a job big_smile

          1. Flightkeeper profile image72
            Flightkeeperposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            HC, bring a tape recorder or if your phone has a voice recorder use that on the next situation some jerk tries to take advantage of you.  Use it to sue his dumb ass and the company.

            1. H.C Porter profile image78
              H.C Porterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              how about text messages and IM of the drunken jerk putting in writing all that he thinks when he thinks of me...
              all it got me was a pissed off husband after he picked up my phone to see text messages at 2am-and the assurance of unemployment which pissed him off and he called Child Protective Services on me- causing an investigation after he accused me of being a doped up drug pushing mother... now that the investigation is over- i am trying to find a lawyer to give me my options... i hope his karma stings when it comes back to him...

              1. Flightkeeper profile image72
                Flightkeeperposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                Sorry to hear that your husband blames you HC because that seems terribly unfair.

                1. H.C Porter profile image78
                  H.C Porterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                  My husband chilled out after i explained everything-
                  now we are just upset with my ex-employer calling CPS on me and since we are married on my husband...

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                    Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                    ooo I see karma really biting him in the arse! and I hope it does it soon.

              2. Misha profile image74
                Mishaposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                Your husband called them on you?

                1. H.C Porter profile image78
                  H.C Porterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                  god no... if he did-he would no longer be my husband...lol

                  1. Misha profile image74
                    Mishaposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                    That's quite a relief LOL

                    Since you have a good backing, you can weather it smile

                  2. H.C Porter profile image78
                    H.C Porterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                    it was a scary situation having CPS and the police showing up on your door step on a Saturday afternoon...Looking at your children-at your home-and giving you a on the spot drug test after an hour of questions... I would not do that to anyone. I feel as if he (my ex boss) was trying to take my children from me-and 1 completely bogus complaint could impact our lives that way... but when they found no drugs in the home and none in our systems...the case was closed. but i still believe he needs to own up and take responsibility for filing a false report...

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        Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        You learned to control your hair? dang it...I still need to learn that aspect lmao

        And I am sorry that you went through that kind of crap with a supervisor. No one should have to deal with that kind of harressment.

      3. Misha profile image74
        Mishaposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        LOL You have a strategic advantage - use it and enjoy it! smile

        Just make sure that you like those who hire you and they don't have pregnant wives or girlfriends wink

  9. prettydarkhorse profile image62
    prettydarkhorseposted 7 years ago

    Maybe it depends on what your objectives are with that person, for a friend, anything goes,good looking or not,as long as they are nice and all,  but for a partner, at first you might be memerized by good looks but how about the character,the relationship might not last, so for a partner beauty and good character is more ok, added bonus, but dont have the mistake of just choosing because of physical characteristics.

    When I was younger, i have used my beauty to get away with some privileges and attention, but it is just shallow thing. I realized that you can olny fool people for a short period of time...nothing compared to a beuatiful character, but if you have both it is alright.

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    sneakorocksolidposted 7 years ago

    My son's a great looking guy but if he's in my chair, I hate him! So I jump him and I tickle him till he screams for his Mom! I don't care if your pretty or handsome, stay out of my chair! Grrrrrrrr!

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      Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      LMAO *sits in your chair*

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    prettydarkhorseposted 7 years ago

    lolol, he looks like the daddy...

  12. Flightkeeper profile image72
    Flightkeeperposted 7 years ago

    Tantrum and Misha sitting on a tree...

    lol

    1. tantrum profile image59
      tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      lol lol

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      Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      lol

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      Linda Myshrallposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Now, THAT was funny!

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    Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago

    You and me both H.C....stupid job market sad

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    Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago

    okay I have to ask Flightkeeper where did you get your pic..it is soooo cool! I loved watching the Munsters!

    1. Flightkeeper profile image72
      Flightkeeperposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Google images, search for lily munster, filter for reusable. EZ PZ

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        Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        sweet! I miss that TV show sad a lot of the new ones suck lol

        1. Flightkeeper profile image72
          Flightkeeperposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          There will always be The Munsters reruns somewhere on the chanel.  I thought the coolest thing about that show was Spot under the stairs. He would have come in handy from time to time.

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            Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            Oh yea I agree there Spot would be a great pet to have around smile we can feed the spammers to him lol

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    Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago

    At that point I would drag in the pregnant wife and tell her what was going on

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    Star Witnessposted 7 years ago

    Actually, the research follows that the more attractive you are, the better things are for you...jobs and other things are always more easily within reach.  Up to a certain point.  People who are considered 'too' good looking also run across something I'd call the intimidation factor.  (This according to those studies someone referenced.)

    And anyway, I think all of us know things are more complicated than a simple duality.  IE, yes it is true that women have an issue with 'the pretty girl' sometimes.  And no, she really has no wriggle room to be nasty among those women.  If she has a couple flaws, too, perhaps, you can bet those same women are on them like the plague.

    Straight men of course think being physically appealing is very important...I've noticed this especially, however, among men who are not considered traditionally attractive themselves.  Seems like they also then place the beauty quotient on women.  Which is kind of weird...like having an attractive woman is to make up for their lack of attractiveness somehow.  Some women (especially the less self-assured ones) fall for it, especially if they value $$ and the man has that.  Most women who value their own satisfaction do not got for it.

    I've seen situations where overweight and unattractive was the norm, and everything is easier for those people.  Game theory (A Beautiful Mind), even proposed that although everybody wants the gorgeous blonde (supposedly), people choose someone they don't think will reject them...  And though I don't really necessarily believe that...there are huge and varying factors in preferences of any sort.  For instance, intelligence and expression there of--in appearance and demeanor--may be paramount for some.  Relatively unattractive and/or overweight people who have style and are neat, clean and competent I think are always judged better than sloppy, stupid and not-so-bright physically attractive people.  At least at a certain professional job level.

    1. Flightkeeper profile image72
      Flightkeeperposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Oh, so that explains Maximus.

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        Star Witnessposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        lol  He's a head case, poor boy.  Believes every stereotype ever told him.

        1. Flightkeeper profile image72
          Flightkeeperposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          I couldn't understand it. He reminded me of the awkward but somewhat smart geek guy in high school who had poor social skills and then just got creepier all through college.  But he knew how to stir us women up!

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            Star Witnessposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            I think on purpose, wink.  Doubt that is really even his photo...but who knows.  He reminded me of the one guy from Friends, truly.  What was his name again..?

            I think he stirred women up because such guys DO exist.  Luckily, better ones, do, too.  lol

            1. Flightkeeper profile image72
              Flightkeeperposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              Thank goodness smile

  17. zadrobi profile image60
    zadrobiposted 7 years ago

    Silly capricious women hehehe

  18. Flightkeeper profile image72
    Flightkeeperposted 7 years ago

    Don't worry Zach, you are definitely one of the better ones!

  19. zadrobi profile image60
    zadrobiposted 7 years ago

    Thank you, FK smile

  20. zadrobi profile image60
    zadrobiposted 7 years ago

    People are people. Amen.

  21. Misha profile image74
    Mishaposted 7 years ago

    He-he, we got a new troll smile

    1. tantrum profile image59
      tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      yeah! Isn't she cute ? big_smile

      1. Misha profile image74
        Mishaposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Oh, I loved the movie, it is so romantic smile

    2. zadrobi profile image60
      zadrobiposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I wonder what it costs to pass the bridge

      1. Misha profile image74
        Mishaposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Arm and leg I guess wink

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          Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          I am so not giving her mine thank you!

    3. rebekahELLE profile image87
      rebekahELLEposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      trolls are from ireland lol

      1. Beth100 profile image84
        Beth100posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        But I think she missed her bus....  lol

        1. rebekahELLE profile image87
          rebekahELLEposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          she fell off the bridge lol lol

          1. tantrum profile image59
            tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            lol lol Poor troll !

          2. Beth100 profile image84
            Beth100posted 7 years ago in reply to this

            Maybe she met the Billy Goats!  lol lol lmao

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        Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Hmmm...if there are ppl like that hanging out in Ireland maybe I don't want to visit after all lol

        1. tantrum profile image59
          tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Irish people are very nice. Maybe she was born with flaws big_smile

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            Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            this is true Tantrum lol very true...hopefully by the time I save up money and hubby and i can go on our honeymoon to Ireland she'll be gone!

          2. Beth100 profile image84
            Beth100posted 7 years ago in reply to this

            Hope the mold was broken (or is that mould???)  lol

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    Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago

    And to think I welcomed her here back when she was more of a nebwie. Wow! And then she goes and attacks me. can someone take the knife out of my back please?

    1. tantrum profile image59
      tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      It's an ilusion crazd ! she hasn't the power !! big_smile

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        Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Phew! Glad to know that Tantrum glad to know that!

  23. Misha profile image74
    Mishaposted 7 years ago

    Oh girls, if you continue in this vein, this thread is guaranteed to be closed smile

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      Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      She started it lol

    2. tantrum profile image59
      tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Yes! Enough of her ! She's not that important ! lol

    3. Beth100 profile image84
      Beth100posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      You are correct Misha.  I'd better back off or I'll be banned for a few days...can't have that!  Nice reminder.  Thank you.

    4. rebekahELLE profile image87
      rebekahELLEposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      oh, we're done misha, she was just really rude, nothing we said was as rude as she has been tonight.

      i need to finish cleaning the kitchen and go to bed
      good night all.  smile

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        Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Good night rebekah chat with ya later.

  24. zadrobi profile image60
    zadrobiposted 7 years ago

    Yeah... she's long since absconded to whence she came.

    1. rebekahELLE profile image87
      rebekahELLEposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      lol

  25. tantrum profile image59
    tantrumposted 7 years ago

    IGNORE HER !

    1. Misha profile image74
      Mishaposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Sound advice. Don't feed the trolls smile

      1. ScarletRyan1970 profile image48
        ScarletRyan1970posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        And don't feed the Lessies.

        Lol Scarlet.

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        Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        HEAR HEAR!

        n-e-ways...how is everyone else doing this fine evening?

        1. drej2522 profile image84
          drej2522posted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Peachy!

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            Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            Good to hear drej...anything exciting going down this weekend?

            1. drej2522 profile image84
              drej2522posted 7 years ago in reply to this

              I'm sure I'll be dressing up as something this year. I was a member of the Fantastic 4 last year! You?

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                Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                Dressing up as I always do. I will always dress up until I die big_smile and the pic I have up is who I am going to be again this year... The Brat by Amy Brown my all time FAV artist!

                1. H.C Porter profile image78
                  H.C Porterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                  last time i dressed up-was three years ago---i conceived my son that night...LOL---damn that costume...J/K LMAO...

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                    Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                    lol bad costume bad...you did throw that one away right? lol

      3. ScarletRyan1970 profile image48
        ScarletRyan1970posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Why I'D Rather be a troll..ey Dolley
        Than a Yanky Doodle with no brain of their own.
        Comform and be dull!You are like sheep that have to follow each other around in a herd.
        Goodnight and Love you all

        Lol Scarlet xxx

        1. H.C Porter profile image78
          H.C Porterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          you are a silly, sad predictable woman

          1. ScarletRyan1970 profile image48
            ScarletRyan1970posted 7 years ago in reply to this

            Who is MAX?
            I would be very grateful if you guys and girls could
            direct me in his direction.
            Why Thankyou.

            Scarlet.

  26. wyanjen profile image87
    wyanjenposted 7 years ago

    good lord

  27. Misha profile image74
    Mishaposted 7 years ago

    Just fine thank you. Trying to decide whether to do dished right now, or half an hour later big_smile

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    Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago

    or maybe tomorrow? lol

  29. Misha profile image74
    Mishaposted 7 years ago

    Nah, my wife gets up way earlier than me, I don't have tomorrow option. smile

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      Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      well then do them quickly right now and get it over with big_smile

      1. Misha profile image74
        Mishaposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        The problem is - I am a kind of guy who always pushes any job to the last moment lol

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          Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          HAHA you sound like me Misha I do the same thing

          1. drej2522 profile image84
            drej2522posted 7 years ago in reply to this

            procrastination...love it! hate it! it's that kind of relationship with me!

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              Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              Hopefully it won't want to befriend me next month when I write the novel in a month. eek! lol

  30. H.C Porter profile image78
    H.C Porterposted 7 years ago

    Ive only been on HubPages a week---but Im just wondering if the comments such as the ones that have come from Max and Scarlet are as pretty typical-LOL...

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      Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Typical...not really. we actaully have NICE people on here. I have no idea where they came from but In my 3 months they have yet been the rudest of the rude bunch!

      1. H.C Porter profile image78
        H.C Porterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Glad i could witness the behavior...LOL

        1. tantrum profile image59
          tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          You won't get it worse than that big_smile

        2. tantrum profile image59
          tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          You better ignore them ! They feed on the answers. that's all the life they have big_smile

    2. tantrum profile image59
      tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Lol ! Pretty typical from that kind of hubbers ! lol

    3. wyanjen profile image87
      wyanjenposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      They pop in, and then pop back out again...lol

  31. H.C Porter profile image78
    H.C Porterposted 7 years ago

    Scarlet---Take a Midol and chill out...no need for nastiness..

  32. wyanjen profile image87
    wyanjenposted 7 years ago

    I have to laugh when I see that - troll

    In Michigan, if you live in the Lower Peninsula, you are called a troll because you live under the (Mackinaw) bridge.

    So I am always calling myself a troll lol

    1. H.C Porter profile image78
      H.C Porterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Thanks for the fan mail--and the welcome ;D

      1. wyanjen profile image87
        wyanjenposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        You're welcome. Your hubs look very interesting, I will be checking them out. When it's not so late LOL

  33. quietnessandtrust profile image60
    quietnessandtrustposted 7 years ago

    For a minute there I thought I was in the religious forum lol

    Good fights in here to. lol

    Anyplace Tantrum is....tantrums happen. lol


    So carry on now mates

    1. tantrum profile image59
      tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      lol lol I'm done now, quietness ! lol

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    Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago

    lol lol lol nice H.C nice! by the way what was it?

    1. H.C Porter profile image78
      H.C Porterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      LOL-- I was dressed up to be an Angel-the costume was a form fitted white vinyl skirt/corset thing...white fishnets...white ankle boots and wings to complete the illusion. LMAO

      1. H.C Porter profile image78
        H.C Porterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        it was one of those nights that you know you are looking good and let off that "im one sexy b*tch" vibe for all to notice. Would have been great if I didnt end up knocked up and hung over after wards smile

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    Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago

    Very nice H.C very nice...I think it's time you start dressing up again smile It's not Halloween unless you dress up lol

    1. H.C Porter profile image78
      H.C Porterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      you are correct--Hmmm-- for halloween its traditional to be something scary or something that is polar opposite from what your personality is?

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        Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Naw be whatever you want to be...I'm going to be something that speaks volumes of a part of my personality lol

        1. H.C Porter profile image78
          H.C Porterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          not sure what to throw together...Guess i might be dusting off the ol Angel get up after all...LOL...  Been putting together my son and daughters costumes for what feels like the past month... Cross eyed with the needle and thread-so not about ready to make something new for myself...LOL

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    Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago

    Angel it is! What are you making for your son and daughter?

    1. H.C Porter profile image78
      H.C Porterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      She is a fairy- she is only one and is a saucy little b*tch already, she had preference to which shoes to wear-and let me know what she thought of my choice... (LOVE IT)and he is a scare crow (he saw one on TV and kept nagging me about it--LOL)

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        Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        only 1 and acts like that already? Oh My dear I will definitely be praying hard for you when she hits her teen years LMAO

        and hey we'll be fairies together yay hehehe
        and how cute a scarecrow. I hope you'll post pics in a hub after Halloween big_smile

        1. H.C Porter profile image78
          H.C Porterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          I will, without a doubt---any reason to show off the munchkins

  37. wyanjen profile image87
    wyanjenposted 7 years ago

    CW - you do not think you are pretty.
    So I think you are honest. Altho you are pretty to us.
    May I put my real face up?
    It is bleecchh but I cant tell if is just the pic or my weirdly shaped head

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      Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      wyanjen you picture is just fine! You have a wonderful smile and eyes full of life that would make anyone smile. I smiled looking at your picture.

      1. wyanjen profile image87
        wyanjenposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        awww. Thanks. I took it off after a couple weeks, thought I was scaring away the customers.
        I'm shy of the camera, so this is the only shot I have of me.
        You are sweet, thanks

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          Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          I'm shy of the camera too but everyone pushes me in front of it and makes me take pics. I say the camera can catch your true feelings so if you look closely to mine sometimes you can see my emotions. In this one I am playing bratty smile

  38. H.C Porter profile image78
    H.C Porterposted 7 years ago

    Good Night All... I have some very non important things that I could probably put off-but would rather just get done while there is silence in my home...

  39. drej2522 profile image84
    drej2522posted 7 years ago

    good night, H.C...Love you...I mean, what?

    1. H.C Porter profile image78
      H.C Porterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      LMAO---nite

  40. drej2522 profile image84
    drej2522posted 7 years ago

    Crazdwriter: what's your book about anyway?

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      Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Stuff! lol sorry couldn't resist I'm a smartass i'm afraid. It is a young adult story based on a high school in California that charades as a regular school but it isn't...it is a school that teaches teens to become demon hunters.

      1. drej2522 profile image84
        drej2522posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        lovely school...that DOES sound interesting. It's a good genre to tap into right about now.

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          Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          It seriously came to me in a dream...I dreamt up one scene and it was great...I hope that I get to dream more of it soon. smile

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    Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago

    Good night H.C chat with you later and yea get the stuff done now so it isn't bugging you lol

  42. drej2522 profile image84
    drej2522posted 7 years ago

    i heard they are usually the best source...dreams that is

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    Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago

    They are...I never really paid attention to my dreams thinking them weird and all..but when I took Writing Seminar in HS and had to keep a dream journal I was like OOO OOo I can write about that...or that...and that too. I still keep a dream journal to this day big_smile

  44. drej2522 profile image84
    drej2522posted 7 years ago

    hmmm, maybe I should start doing that...I always forget my dreams.

  45. profile image0
    Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago

    Well try it out...find a journal that you like, put it beside your bed with a pen and when you wake up write what you do remember

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