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Is being gay or lesbian due to one initial sexual encounter in life, with a gay

  1. KaisaJordan profile image67
    KaisaJordanposted 6 years ago

    Is being gay or lesbian due to one initial sexual encounter in life, with a gay or lesbian person?

  2. Cardisa profile image92
    Cardisaposted 6 years ago

    Is being heterosexual due to one initial encounter in life with the opposite sex?

    Be gay or lesbian is who you are, similar to the heterosexual. It is time we learn that a person's sexual preference should not be an issue.

    By the way I am happily heterosexual.

  3. nightwork4 profile image60
    nightwork4posted 6 years ago

    i doubt it. from what i've read and the gay people i know, it's mainly caused by genetics. i don't think it's a conscious choice that we make but it's just how some people are. of course religious nuts will tell you it's a sin but that's why they are religious nuts.

  4. wychic profile image89
    wychicposted 6 years ago

    No, absolutely not. One of my very good friends is the mother of a gay man, and she assures me (as have other mothers in similar situations) that she knew long before he even hit ten years old, yet he remained a virgin until his late teens. Then there is a woman who has been a very good friend of mine since she was five years old -- she is now 22. At the time we met, "boys were icky" and all the other age-appropriate stuff, but as she grew they never did catch her eye. At nine years old through her teens, she had posters of attractive women on her walls, but never men. She remained a virgin until well into college, when she entered into the committed relationship she's in now. It's as Cardisa says -- you don't have to have sex to know you're heterosexual, and likewise you don't have to in order to know you're homosexual.

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    Huldahposted 6 years ago

    In my case this is true
    One night my cousin had showed me his penis I was stunned
    Idk why but from then on I was hooked
    No homo I'm bi
    There was few minutes of sucking on each other but no incest right?!