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A Useful Guide to Happy Marriage
This hub is a tribute to my fiancee hehehe...
The crowning glory of a man’s life is his wife. There is a saying that for every successful man there is a loving woman behind him.
Ah spouse, life will not be complete without her, she is the pillar and cornerstone of a place we call home. The presence of a spouse assures that things are on their proper perspective. Her ability to perform several tasks will surely keep your home not only a livable abode but a refuge from the hustle and bustle of life, a sanctuary that keeps offspring to grow into a happy, healthy and responsible citizen, and a love nest to nurture affection, passion and love.
A wife’s role in each household is second to none, where on earth will you find a humble creature where she can perform the tasks of a Manager (Doing the budgeting and taking good care of financial matters), a Teacher (inculcating values, knowledge and wisdom to kids), a Nurse (has the healing touch and warmth care whenever sickness arises), a Policewoman (peacemaker and always keeping an eye to the husbands’ deeds wakikik) and Maid (doing all the household chores). Our spouse is tailored to do all the difficult tasks at once, or one after the other, often not hearing from her any complains.
A spouse is the source of your joy through thick and thin, a guiding torch when darkness comes, a stabilizing force to keep the family intact as much as possible, and your immense inspiration to reach all your goals, objectives and even dreams. For all those things your wonderful spouse does, she is more than deserving of not only your attention but your not wavering love as well, for without her living would very difficult and has no meaning.
Here are some useful tips to keep the love a blazing between two sweethearts.
Stay loyal. Since your spouse plays an important role in your life, she should always be showered and pampered with tender love and care even if time will slowly wears her allure and charm down. Beauty fades as many people says, but her personality, character and other priceless attributes that once mesmerized and astound you will always be present and will flourish even further.
The sexy figure and sex appeal of a spouse may falter, but the things they’ve done to you like the division of labor that truly made your life a lot easier, and the great moments both of you shared will always have an ample space in your mind and heart.
Stay sweet to your spouse, a simple I love you through text or phone will surely rejuvenate her at any time, a card filled with heartwarming and moving words will surely eliminates he worries, a warm embrace will surely make her feel secure all the time and a gentle yet passionate kiss dished out several times a day will surely captivates her once elusive heart over and over again.
A bar of chocolate and bouquet of flowers will always ensure that your apologies will be accepted.
Everytime misunderstanding will sprout out like mushrooms, a bar of chocolate and bouquet of flowers will always ensure that your apologies will be accepted, a sorry with flowers and chocolates will surely smoothen a woman’s heart.
During trying times where plates can be instantly turned into flying saucers, be calm and cool down, don’t fight fire with fire, and take your time. When things are settled down, where tantrums and temper are released and gone already in thin air, find time to talk diplomatically to resolve any dispute and misunderstandings. Don’t let the day passed without resolving any conflict and disagreement. All problems have their own solution and kinks can be flattened out.
Understanding is an application of knowledge, learning to understand ourselves and the feeling of our spouse requires high degree of discernment that should be practice after years of marriage. Learning to keep quiet at the right time requires lots of wisdom, for quarrel cannot be avoided, but through understanding prolems should be solve before the sunsets. Moreover, understanding is essential in a relationship for it covers multitudes of shortcomings as it gives chance to correct misdeeds of both sides. Acquiring more knowledge about your spouse upbringing and background will minimize misunderstandings on why she behaves this way or that way, because a person who lacks understanding will always blame others when he fails on his endeavors, worse he will blame his spouse for his own folly.
The secret to a marriage life is consists of nine simple words that are indeed very useful:
Love - Not to hurt her, even in simple jokes.
Joy - Reflecting happiness in the company of spouse is contiguous, joy begets joy, and everytime you feel not happy force to smile, if an engine will not start you will crank it so that it will move, same with our feeling it can be forced to be happy,
Peace - Learning when to stop talking is the secret to a peaceful relationship, because too much communication is worse than lack of communication. After all, the best way of relaying message is when you say nothing at all, so learning to be silent is the greatest secret of marriage bond.
Long-suffering - Exercising patience will give you inner joy.
Kindness - Practicing this attribute to everyone 24/7 keeps our heart to respond automatically to our spouse’ worries and concerns with a sympathetic ear).
Goodness - Derives from a good motives because you cannot falsify good intentions, when quarrel starts, you must regain healthy communications, it is better to lose the argument than to lose a spous.
Faith - Defying belief in Supreme Creator will surely lead to a broken marriage because we humans are not created to stand on our feet without the His aid.
Mildness - A person who is mild will always win sympathy including that of your very spouse.
Self-control - A person lacking in self-control no matter how learnt he is, is not educated, controlling our tongue with the bursts of anger reflects beyond with the kings who ruleth the entire country possesses.
When quarrels comes always think of how to preserve the marriage…
>>> This is my 20th hub in the HubChallenge <<<
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