Love doesn't Have To Hurt

I bought a house March of last year. I checked out the neighborhood and it seemed to be a nice place to live. Nice and quiet , and everyone was very friendly. I met everyone except for the neighbors to my left. Everyone came over to welcome me to the neighborhood. The people next to me on the left didn't come over, so I didn't think anything of it. As time past we just said hello or just nodded their head to say hi. It seemed that all the couples got along pretty much. That's why I was so surprised when I was washing dishes and happened to look out my window,my neighbors were washing their Harley's, and suddenly,the  husband came over to her and with all his might, he punched her on the back. I couldn't believe what I just saw. Wow I felt so bad for her, I wish I knew her better, so I would be able to speak to her. Since I didn't , and not wanting to intrude I left it alone.. If I did intervene she might have told me to mind my own business, and I just didn't trust her husband. He might retaliate later on ,so I kept my mouth shut. Still don't know if it was the right thing to do.Just trying to keep the peace In the neighborhood.

Some women not all , but there are some that like bad boys. Guess what? that's exactly what they get, bad boys which are also bad husbands,and fathers. Oh my, who would have thought it. She ended up with exactly what she wanted, and that is a BAD BAD BOY! Women have to stop this, for the sake of their children. Their sons will think this OK behavior to treat a women this way. Her daughter will feel that's its OK to take the abuse because mom put up with it, so therefore she will. There you go, a never ending cycle. I say, "women no more". don't take it any more. Men are supposed to be our soul mates, our lovers and our best friends not our controllers. Most of these men don't know when they have a good thing until its to late.

What I witnessed was humiliating,demeaning,devastating , degrading. Now I ask you how could the word' Love' be involved in this situation? I have known plenty of women that just put up with it. Making excuses for their husbands like, they have a lot on their minds right now, or his job isn't going well. I say "enough already stop the madness" . Stand up women and say enough! The old excuse , and I know everyone out there knows what it is ( but I LOVE Him) can't tell you how many times I have heard that one. I don't have much patience for people like that , because the kind of person that I am, strong and independent can't understand that mentally.I would never put up with anyone putting their hands on me. I do feel bad for this women, its very devastating I am sure. Another thing when you say I do. it doesn't mean I have become your property. This person does not own you,and to do with as he wishes. What nerve he has. I was going to say ( What Balls he has) but I didn't , and I feel good about that HA HA.

one thing I remember when my ex asked me asked for a divorce. I thought I was lost and scared , I didn't how I was going to survive without him, because that's all I knew. Well needless to say I was so much better off without him in my life, of course I didn't realize this until a year later. The weight had been lifted, it was liberating. I didn't know the extent of my unhappiness until that moment in my life. Women it might seem like the end of the world , but believe me its just the beginning. Trust me the world gets so much better.We as women have much to offer as,mothers,sisters,aunts.and grandmothers. Its our job to spread the love and knowledge for the next generation to come.