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Dating tips over 40 : How to spice up your over 40 relationship

Updated on July 9, 2013

Over time a relationship may lose some of passion and excitement that it had in the very beginning.

Most relationship are full of joy and excitement in the beginning, but over time work commitments, home responsibilities and every day routine are in charge over excitement and enjoyment. It could cost some misunderstandings and troubles for some people, but it's absolutely normal and moreover reversible.

After being married for awhile, raising children, making a career a couple may have noticed that the initial excitement and spontaneity of relationship is beginning to flicker out. There is nobody to be blamed, it can happened to anyone at any age or at any period of relationship.

When you are 20 it's easy to renew the excitement and spontaneity or relationship, but when you are 40 it might take a little bit more work to be done to experience a happy and healthy relationship again. There is always a choice whether to act and improve life or to content current situation. Of course it is much easier to blame your partner but will it really help to renew the spark in your relationship?

If your 40 and you want to feel love and excitement that you felt in your 20s again, don't shift responsibilities that you can do, to bring back joy and happiness to your current routine relationship, start changing your behavior and outlook and very soon you'll see a feedback from your partner.

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Useful tips for you

Here are a few simple advice how to start improving your over 40 relationship and bring back excitement and happiness in your relationship:

  • Say compliments. Encourage your partner in all his or her actions, this way you'll show that you value and support your partner, this is very important.
  • Be romantic. Romance plays essential part in every relationship whether you're 20 or 40. Give flowers, gifts, send love cards, txt love messages, it's easy to do and it won't cost a thing, but the result will be fantastic.
  • Arrange a date for no reason. Ask your partner out to a romantic dinner, this is a winning idea for all ages dating.
  • Arrange a spontaneous weekend get away trip. Spending a weekend out of house, can spice up and bring new experience in your routine life.
  • Kiss. Give a kiss to your partner any time you want or at any good moment. Kissing will bring endorphines the hormones of happiness in your relationship.

You are in charge of your happiness, you can feel the excitement of relationship all your life.

Don't put away something your can do today, begin with looking dating sites for seniors, to improve your mature relationship, put a little bit efforts and soon you'll notice your relationship taking a turn for the better.

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5 Famous Quotes for Relationships

1. "A relationship, I think, is like a shark, you know? It has to constantly move forward or it dies. And I think what we got on our hands is a dead shark."

Woody Allen. American screenwriter, director, actor, comedian, author, playwright, and musician whose career spans over half a century.

2. "Truth is, I'll never know all there is to know about you just as you will never know all there is to know about me. Humans are by nature too complicated to be understood fully. So, we can choose either to approach our fellow human beings with suspicion or to approach them with an open mind, a dash of optimism and a great deal of candour."

Tom Hanks. American actor, producer, writer, and director.

3. "I believe that two people are connected at the heart, and it doesn't matter what you do, or who you are or where you live; there are no boundaries or barriers if two people are destined to be together."

Julia Roberts. American actress.

4. "When you start falling for somebody and you can't stop thinking about when you're going to see them again, I love that. Women are beautiful. They deserve to be cherished and respected."

Orlando Bloom. English actor.

5. "I don't need anyone to rectify my existence. The most profound relationship we will ever have is the one with ourselves."

Shirley MacLaine. American film and theater actress, singer, dancer, activist and author.


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    • AmandaJon profile imageAUTHOR

      Amanda Jones 

      5 years ago

      Routine life, responsibilities, issues with kids,all this cause misunderstandings and difficulties between spouse. Please remember to live life, to enjoy your life, to find time to do what you like. Kids will grow up, and move, but you two will stay with each other, so if you want to have a healthy and happy relationship, don't forget to put a little efforts today, in term to keep love, tenderness in your relationship in the long run.

      I'm happy for you, you made the right decision, every couple needs a vacation from time to time, to refresh emotions, so enjoy it to the fullest.

    • denise.w.anderson profile image

      Denise W Anderson 

      5 years ago from Bismarck, North Dakota

      My husband and I are at that difficult time in our lives when we are almost ready to retire, and the stress level is high with adult children and their issues, as well as aging parents. The time we spend together is usually taking care of necessities. We decided that this year, we are taking a vacation just to do it, not because we want to see family or have work responsibilities, but just for us. We are looking forward to it!

    • AmandaJon profile imageAUTHOR

      Amanda Jones 

      5 years ago

      Thank you Dora, I'm so excited to hear it from you.

    • MsDora profile image

      Dora Weithers 

      5 years ago from The Caribbean

      Beautiful and inspirational on many levels. You selected some great pictures and the quotations are powerful. Altogether, an excellent presentation. Voted Up!


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