I want to open by saying I received these pieces of advice when I was 14 years old from a peer named Ester ;
1. If it is not what you really want, quit.
2. It is not your problem.
1. I had a part time job that was stressing me out, and she gave me that advice, and I quit.
2. I was upset about a decision which would serious impact on Student Gov. and I went to the room where the meeting would take place and I couldn't get in; and she said that.
Those two simple statements usually answer most questions.