What would you want to learn about a blind date on that first date?
I think an important thing to know up front is if they are self centered and selfish or if they really are considerate of others. It will reflect a great deal on how they will treat you if another date is in the future.
If all his ex's had to say one positive thing about him and one negative thing about him, what would it be? If he can answer honestly & even humbly (without placing blame or making excuses & without bringing all of their relationship drama into) then he's a keeper. It's a bit of a mind twister, but it will tell you a lot about the person in general.
Whether or not he was married or in a relationship. No one needs the headaches created by a cheater.
The main things to look for on a (first date) are chemistry and common interests.
If you or him/her don't enjoy each other's company there most likely will not be a "second date" regardless of how much either of you may have going for yourselves (on paper).
A (first date) is all about having a good time!
I would want to know what they are looking for...whether a friendship, a companion or something more lasting and rewarding. Time is valuable and once it is gone you can't get it back...it is gone. I would also like direct answers to questions because one can gain a wealth of knowledge and wisdom when things are direct whether the answer is what one is seeking or not.
If you don't like them then it doesn't matter what they are looking for. Time is valuable but a (first date) should not be about trying to decide whether to cut the blue or red wire! Dating is a social activity not a job! Establish rapport/chemistry.
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What's the worst thing a guy could do on a date to make you take a cab home?
by tequilarosemama4 14 years ago
i wanna know what's the weirdest thing you have ever done on a first date. come on lets not be shy.the weirdest thing i have ever done was to lean in to kiss the guy i was on a first date with and ended up lighting my hair on fire from the candles on our table..
by Freegoldman 12 years ago
Was it mostly by watching your parents interact or hearing instant replays of all your friends’ romances? Or perhaps most of what you know about relationships has come from your own trial by error experiences.
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