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Have you ever had an argument with your mate over a "hypothetical" situation?


Maybe another couple is going through something and one of you asked your significant other what (they) would do under the same circumstances? Or you learn that your mate did something in a (past) relationship which has (no) relevance to your relationship but it still bothers you enough to fight about it…etc In other words you are fighting about something that has nothing to do with NOW. I wonder if some people (look) for things to fight about. What do you think?

 

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Best Answer Kari (Relationshipc) says

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    dashingscorpio 4 years ago

    Very true! (Staying in the moment would reduce the number of fights a couple has.)

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    dashingscorpio 4 years ago

    It's too bad that "what if" arguments can become so intense. It's such a waste of time and energy. I'm sure more than one couple has fought over "would be" lotto winnings!

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    dashingscorpio 4 years ago

    It's funny how we can create arugments out of thin air sometimes which have nothing to do with the present. :-)