Relationships fail because both people expect other person to follow their footsteps or to perform certain responsibilities. But if I suggest , not to have any expectations from other person, then dependency is lost. In today's world , love cannot persist without any interest or use. So when dependency is lost , love is lost. Since other person is not contributing nor interfering in any issues , his/her existance doesn't matter to his/her counterpart.
So what is the solution for this "expectation" problem?
It is "adjustment". How this word could be implemented in relationships?
1)Listen to your partner when he/she is angry , frustrated and try to cool him/her down.
2) Follow his/her instructions even if you have to put down your ego.
3) Spend time with him/her.
4)At the same time give him/her freedom.
5) Respect his/her opinion.
by Dawn Michael 6 years ago
Do people really love their spouse unconditionaly or do they place conditions on their love?
by palmieri28 7 years ago
I'm so frustrated! I tell my boyfriend of 2 years that I really want him to come to my work christmas party. I told him I cant wait to introduce him to my higher ups. (quick background: He loves to shop and buys themost expensive stuff and dresses to the "9" all the time). He shows up to...
by Moipone 6 years ago
what your take on romantic movies do they make relationships strong with the message sent across to viewers or do they make people to have high expectations of how relationships should be.,
by Julia Chang 7 years ago
If one doesn't expect anything, doesn't that guarantee that one will never be disappointed? And when something great happens, it feels like a bonus. Why can't more people approach dating/relationships w/o all the hassles of expectations?
by Peeples 8 months ago
Why do parents expect children to act like adults?Do we put too many standards on our children and in return take away some of the child in them?
by GrowingDeeper 7 years ago
What makes it hard for you to forgive?Forgiveness isn't easy for any of us. But, what makes it so difficult for you? Are there particular instances that are easier than others? Just would like some feedback from you folks.
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