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What should be appropriate position for sex with a pregnant woman?

  1. pankaj3625 profile image72
    pankaj3625posted 8 years ago

    What should be appropriate position for sex with a pregnant woman?

  2. Suiiki profile image59
    Suiikiposted 8 years ago

    Most pregnancy and parenting websites recommend a position that is easy on the woman's back that also puts as little pressure as possible on her belly. Girl-on-top would be the most obvious one, but you don't want to let her tire herself out, either.

    The most important thing to remember is, if she doesn't feel comfortable while she is doing it, she isn't going to want to do it.

    And if she's feeling bad because of hormones, health changes, the fact that she isn't sleeping well, etc, then just leave her well enough alone.

    Most women don't lose their sex drive when pregnant, they just don't feel comfortable with their bodies or they feel tired, sick, and stressed.

    Only do it if she feels up to it, and try to make her comfortable, and remember that for now, you have to do most of the work. Also remember that everything on her body will feel more sensitive and she will probably feel pain a lot easier, like when she has her period, only worse, so be gentle. And listen to her. If she says "Stop" then stop, because she means it and you don't want to piss off a pregnant lady!

  3. momo6kids1968 profile image60
    momo6kids1968posted 8 years ago

    well ,i have 6kids so i guess i'm qualified.if you are not showing and are in the early wks you can resume the normal position,man on top or vice versa,but when we start growing,on your sides or her leaning over ,hey this is hard for me to write!in

  4. Queen_Kevyn95 profile image52
    Queen_Kevyn95posted 8 years ago

    i personally don't believe it's very safe for the baby to be having sex while pregnant.  but, if you must, it is recommended to do something easy on the womans back

  5. Dark knight rides profile image73
    Dark knight ridesposted 8 years ago

    What ever is most comfortable for her. I've known girls who prefer lots of pillows on the bed to lean against while being taken from behind. Others enjoyed spooning. Others liked to be on top so they can control the action and depth better.

  6. Satish K Bhandari profile image61
    Satish K Bhandariposted 8 years ago

    It is difficult to come to  but the two positions tried and found very satisfying for both are:
    1- the cow solution-the female bends with arms on the table and you take her from behind-the vagiana is very tight in this position and it gives real pleasure to the male partner while the female realy enjoyes it. The male could caress her breasts to make it a new and adventures.

    2-The female lies on the table with her legs dangling and the vagiana inviting. The male takes her from the front while craessing the breasts. It is very stimulating and pleasurable.

    Both these positions do not harm the female but gives real pleasure.

  7. sexeducationnow profile image57
    sexeducationnowposted 8 years ago

    sex during pregnancy is absolutely safe ! just that you need to be careful with the lady. any positions that put pressure on her uterus should be avoided.

    try missionary on the edge, where the woman is on a  bed and and enters her standing. This puts no pressure on the woman's abdomen.

    cowgirl position or woman on the top is also a good position as suggested by Mr. Bhandari.

    doggy style wud be nice as long as the woman does not raise her vagina to reach the man. Keep it low.

    Spooning is also safe and pleasurable. Just make sure the lady does nt be on her right side for too long.

    have fun pankaj..it's an amazing feeling to make love to a woman who s carrying your baby...i wonder hw useful this will be to u as your qs was posted 5 months back.

    In case of oral sex..pls do not give her a cunnilingus.not that it's always harmful, but yes, be careful to not to blow air into her vagina.

    But i hope u find it useful.

  8. THE LIP profile image59
    THE LIPposted 7 years ago

    Cowgurl or even reverse cowgurl is amongst the safest and best position coz here the pregnant woman is in control.So for a change U cud lie back and let her do it as she deems fit. U cud fondle but don't maul her as her sensitivity is much more.So if she can get aroused faster and easier she can also get turned off equally fast.She's giving the baby go ahead and give her all the pleasure not the way you think she wants it but the way she actually wants it.

    Another comfortable position is spooning provided you can do it perfectly.Else stick to the cowgurl position and let the lady ride you don't get tempted to bulldoze her from down under!

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    dracaslairposted 7 years ago

    well i did what rocked me.it was soothing to the baby.spooning helps the baby.cowgirl is good.

  10. Pitviper_actual profile image60
    Pitviper_actualposted 7 years ago

    When my wife was pregnant both times, she enjoyed either what is termed as doggy style or her laying on her side and you are belly to back. It is important to have sex during pregnancy as I found out. The doctor told me it helped the woman to have a proper natural child birth.

  11. GirlNLeadShoes profile image54
    GirlNLeadShoesposted 7 years ago

    Doggy style or when she is lying on her left side

  12. NotPC profile image59
    NotPCposted 7 years ago

    one word... missionary.  This position is great from all angles and it allows a pregnant woman to reach her maximum climax

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    tlmntim9posted 7 years ago

    Whatever pleases you wife is the simple plain truth!

  14. badegg profile image78
    badeggposted 7 years ago

    Whatever is comfortable for her. Usually with pillow support on her back or side by side as "Spoons".

  15. lovelife08 profile image59
    lovelife08posted 6 years ago

    Just about any position is fine.  If she is on her back, make sure she has a pillow underneath her.  She can always lay on her side, and from there he can either sit up on his knees, or lay on his side.  Doggy style is also good, but again, have a pillow underneath her, just in case she wants to get off her arms for a bit.  Pregnancy is a great opportunity to pull out your Kama Sutra book and experiment a little to see what works best for both of you.

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    Donttellapasswordposted 4 years ago

    It should be the penius in the but  or  something really hard