Why do I feel like I can't stand for my husband to be around me?

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    abevans911posted 8 years ago

    Why do I feel like I can't stand for my husband to be around me?

    I don't want him to touch me....and our sex life is no good. I don't even know if I'm getting pleased the way I should be. I feel like my marriage is falling apart.

  2. HappyHer profile image60
    HappyHerposted 8 years ago

    Have you experienced any sort of trauma in your life that would start to play out in your current relationship?  If not, then how about unsettled resentments towards your spouse?  Many times, if we feel our partner is not there in ways we need them to be, we'll be put off by them.  I would suggest counseling to get to the bottom of it.

  3. sasanqua profile image81
    sasanquaposted 8 years ago

    Don't be afraid to talk about this with your husband. It's best to be open with him. He will notice you are feeling this way (if he hasn't already) and this may cause him to be hurt and confused. I strongly suggest having some counselling (with and without your husband) to work out what's going on.

 
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