cheating spouse

  1. profile image33
    4sommposted 8 years ago

    cheating spouse

    What do you do when you feel your spouse or partner is cheating on you, do you comfront him/her...or just act like you don't care?

  2. mkott profile image76
    mkottposted 8 years ago

    Confronting them they most likely will lie.  There are certain behaviors that go along with cheating.  Extra hours at work, may talk about a certain individual more than usual, taking calls in another room and not being able to get a hold of them.  Check their cell phone records, look at email if possible.  If you find out that they are cheating and they refuse couseling consider moving on.  The have to sever all ties to that person.  Also if you find out they are cheating approach them in a way that is not confrontational.  This will be hard because emotions run high.

  3. JeniferD profile image60
    JeniferDposted 8 years ago

    The direct approach is always good. Body language is always a tell tale sign, along with the usual avoidance if an S.O. is cheating. I'd give them the benefit of the doubt, but, would ask if there was anything wrong just to be sure.

    Sure, cheaters lie.  Not all of them are good at covering their tracks either, but, have a back-up plan just in case things do go South.