What can I do to make my man get his sex drive back. I am feeling very frustrate

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  1. profile image46
    crystalprincessposted 8 years ago

    What can I do to make my man get his sex drive back. I am feeling very frustrated.

    He is going through money worries, but has always had a high sex drive. But is now not interested. It is making me feel down. I feel that I am the cause of it.

  2. Someone123 profile image55
    Someone123posted 8 years ago

    It's not you. When a guy is stressed out, he might lose motivation and become depressed. Try talking about his worries with him and comfort him.

    Try to cheer him up and ask him what he would like to try new. If you don't want to try some porn videos, how about a movie with a fair bit of sexual content to get him in the mood. Revealing clothes, but don't be to obvious if you don't have the confidence to talk to him about it.

  3. TheBigWoo profile image54
    TheBigWooposted 8 years ago

    What the loss of his sex drive sudden or did it kind of slowly erode away? Have you considered being more enticing to him? Invite him to have a long candle lit bath with you. Make sure you smell nice and taste like a peach. Breath is very important.
    Is he kinky? Maybe you need to mix things up a bit and get "freaky". Discuss his sexual interests with him. Ask him what turns him on. Maybe he's into something that he knows would scare you off. You have to be willing to have a completely open mind. Try being the aggressor. Pull him aside and attack him. Freak him out. Don't be ordinary. Men like whores in bed, haven't you heard. Good luck!

  4. profile image51
    SpaceAgeposted 8 years ago

    over time, he probably depleted some things in his body. the body does function w/ a chemical balance. he may very well b 'spent.' i'd let him rest til he's ready

  5. xethonxq profile image65
    xethonxqposted 6 years ago

    Talk to him about how you can help problem solve the financial issues. Validate his feelings, be engaged in the discussion, demonstrate committment to an agreed upon plan. Usually other issues (such as finances) are at the root of lowered sex drives. Hard to be romantically inclined if you're too stressed out about things.


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