Is virginity matters in a good marriage?

  1. urs_dipak profile image58
    urs_dipakposted 7 years ago

    Is virginity matters in a good marriage?

    Is virginity matters in a good marriage?

  2. padmendra profile image47
    padmendraposted 7 years ago

    Virginity matters in principle but matters a lot to them who are curious to know the real fact of virginity of their spouse on the first night. Otherwise the meaning of virginity is nothing but to satisfy oneself.

  3. wychic profile image89
    wychicposted 7 years ago

    I think only if one or the other doesn't have a very stable ego. I know in my own experience it hasn't mattered one bit -- my first husband and I were both virgins when we met, but it didn't stop him from later deciding that I must be eyeing every male in town just because he had a bad self-esteem. My current husband knows I'm not a virgin, obviously, since I have a son that's not biologically his, and he has four children from two previous marriages. However, it's this second marriage that has worked out very well, and where there is trust and happiness. I can see where someone wouldn't want to find out that their future wife/husband had slept with half the town, but in many cultures it doesn't seem to matter if there has been a previous lover as long as they are truly in the past. I know there are some cultures where this is considered unacceptable, but even then it seems like people should be able to acknowledge that their intended is human, and all humans learn through experience and mistakes.

 
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