what can i say to my boy friend to trust me?
I love my boy friend and i want a letter to write him so he can trust me
Trust is not something that can be conferred through words, it has to be earned through actions. If there is a specific reason that he has difficulty trusting you, then the only way around it is to show through time and consistency that you learned from your mistake and can be trusted now. If he just hasn't learned to trust you yet, then simply showing him love and support and eventually he will see that he can trust you. However, if he's a jealous type and is untrustworthy without cause, then about all you can do is keep your own actions blameless, and decide how much you're willing to put up with...a lot of people will use perpetual unreasonable jealousy as a tool for control of the other person.
trust hasto be earned show him that yuoumena\ whatyou sayand then hopefully itwill be obvious
Trust has to be an innate, given thing in a relationship. It should go without saying that he trusts you. If he wont trust you no matter what, than that says something of his own character and, perhaps, he has something he's hiding himself and he's just turning it on you. But a relationship must have trust.
Does he need a written proof so that you can trust him? Was it something that you did in the past or he has commitment issues. Everything in this world takes time, let go and take effort to clear the air between you both. Instead of writing letter try talking face to face, it always works.
Simply put, you cannot say anything to him. Actions speak for themselves. The old saying, "actions speak louder than words," is an absolutely truthful one. Trust is earned through actions that suggest a person can and should be trusted, and is therefore, trustworthy.
There is a saying in business that it takes years to build a loyal customer, and seconds to lose one. Trust operates much the same way. You will have to build trust. Once its built, its also a fragile thing. Break it and it is lost forever.
Don't write it in a letter, speak to him openly about how much you want him to trust you, then show him by your actions over time that you're trustworthy.
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