When is it the right time to take your relationship to the next step?
I have no clue what I'm doing and I don't know what to do!lol help!
There is no easy way to take a "risk" to find out if a person wants the same thing you want especially if you are becoming emotionally invested.
If a person is uncomfortable with bringing up "our relationship status" the best thing to do is (ask him/her if they are dating other people.)The answer to this question will let you know where you stand.
It also allows both people the opportunity to state if they want to date exclusively. You might also ask (where do you see us 5 years from now.) If there is any hesitation you'll also have your answer.
What does "the next step" mean?
A 18 year old who has been dating someone since they were 16 should not be thinking egagement/marriage is the "next step".
With regard to marriage it's not about "time" as much as "who" "where" and "Why".
The "who" (is this the person you really want to spend the rest of your life with?) Do you share the same goals?
Are they financially stable, mature, honest, trust worthy, attentive to your needs...etc
The "where" ( Are you in the right place at this point in your life to take on all of the responsibilities that come with marriage and a family?) Have you completed your education, began to build a career, paid down your debts, have enough life experience to know YOURSELF and what you truly want in a mate.
The "Why" (If things are great the way they are what do you think will improve by going to the "next step"? What will the step after that one be? You don't go to the next step simply because you want a "new title" or you've been dating the same person for a certain amount of time, all of your friends are getting married...etc
Marriage is not the be all end all.
Too many people think once they're married they can "relax".
They stop doing most of the things that caused their mate to fall in love with them. Marriage requires the same effort as dating.
Commitment does not mean it's ok to take someone for granted. In any relationship we are either neglecting or nurturing. It's easier to maintain a fire than it is to reignite a spark.
Don't think that by going to the "next step" life gets easier. A happy marriage is a real "labor of love."
I am in no way thinking marriage I'm too young for that^_^thank your for answering^_^
When it feels right. If you're only 17 then you really don't need to worry about that. Just keep doing what you're doing. The next couple steps along your line would be living together and then engagement, then marriage. That's all the steps there really are. You don't really have to know what you're doing. You're young. Just do what feels right. If you're uncomfortable then step back for a little bit.
by mcfly411 7 years ago
Been dating same man for nearly 5yrs - both of us divorced w/kids. How much longer should I wait?"My boyfriend and I have been dating for nearly 5 yrs. We are both divorced with kids of similar ages (13,12, 11 and 8). At 43, I'm ready to try again but he has said that he doesn't want to be...
by Grace Marguerite Williams 3 years ago
What are the ways that divorce is considered to be the next step of growth and developmentin a marriage instead of a sign of utter failure?
by Marcelo Carcach 24 months ago
Is the Lord calling you to make a change in your life? Is He calling you to serve Him in a particular ministry? What is the next project He has for you? Please share, so we can encourage each other in the faith.
by Lynda Mafhalala 10 months ago
I have been dating a married guy put our 3yrs relationship on hold, should wait for him I love him?As he put our relationship on hold is because he wants to fix things first before we can continue with our relationship because he said he loves me and I love him too. But the problem is he is full of...
by Christopher Dapo and S. 7 years ago
What do you believe is the next step in human evolution and how will it come about?We might have come a long way from sliced bread but we still have yet to overcome ourselves and our more barbaric traits that tend to lead to destruction more than civility. In all seriousness, how do you see...
by iadaisy22 7 years ago
I need advice. Me and a man have been dating for two weeks. He says he is crazy about me and I...am. "the one." This week his mom went into the hospital. She is dying. I supported him with phone calls and texts. He was very open and talked about what he felt, also saying he needed me....
|HubPages Device ID|
|Login||This is necessary to sign in to the HubPages Service.|
|HubPages Google Analytics|
|HubPages Traffic Pixel|
|Google Hosted Libraries|
|Google AdSense Host API|
|Conversion Tracking Pixels|
|Author Google Analytics|
|Amazon Tracking Pixel|