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I think I am falling for this guy.. We have been sleeping together and hanging o

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    AshleyLiz224posted 7 years ago

    I think I am falling for this guy.. We have been sleeping together and hanging out a lot and he...

    says he has feelings for me but he's not ready because he's still hurt by his ex they broke up a year ago but hung out and cuddled and stuff all the time... It hurts to just try and be his friend but at the same time I don't wanna walk away.. Idk what to do..

  2. JustHonest profile image53
    JustHonestposted 7 years ago

    walk away... at the very least stop being physical.  If he doesn't want things now, it's because he needs space.  Give him that space -- give yourself that space -- so the both of you can heal.  Healing is necessary before anything else comes along.

  3. dashingscorpio profile image87
    dashingscorpioposted 7 years ago

    At best if you stay you will be "the rebound girl" and at worst him and his ex will work things out leading them to get back together.
    There is no upside for you in a situation like this.
    Life is too short be caught up in a drama filled relationship.
    You deserve to be with a man who able and willing to emotionally invest himself in a relationship with you.

  4. eli grey profile image61
    eli greyposted 7 years ago

    I agree with the two below. Imagine what would happen if out of the blue he wasn't there for you physically and he just stopped wanting to be with you. He and his ex need to sit down and have a nice long talk for both their sakes. In the meantime, back off. But before you do, let him know that you can be there emotionally if he ever needs it.

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    UNLOVED ROHITposted 7 years ago

    i think u shd leave him. See its 1 year since he broke up. just try to know whats the reason behind his previous break up. But i m sure if u r indulge in sex together and hanging around a lot but he still says he doesn't feel same about u then you must be just timepass him just be carefull.