First I would like to open that the statitstics dealing with sex factors in infidelity is getting pretty close to dead even, so the especially men addition isn't especially tru.
As far as the rampent infidelities in this day, I beleive that is part of our training given by society.
We live in a temporary world, where everything seems to be viewed as disposable and replaceable.
Everything we ecounter on a daiy basis is based on how it can bring joy to a person and then be cast away with out a second thought.
Fast food, plastic/fibreglass cars, CD's (weakest musical format ever), MP3's (dont even exist in the physical world, so no worries about losing or breaking), and a whole plethera of cheap chinese made crap we know won't last till the end of the week.
We are a society that, as a whole, shuns anything long term or substantial. This naturally leads to an attitude of impermanence that permeates all apsects of our society, even our relationships.
Factor in that our culture places such emphasis on "players" and also that stigma's against women playing the field have dropped alot, and we have a giant clusterf*@K of free love going on.
As is always the case with Humankind, we are ultimately the source of our own problems.
Men don't cheat
It's experienced by many people of the world including me
9 times out of 10 men and women think they are in love when it was only infatuation or sexual attraction. They do not know true love so they go looking for that exciting feeling.
True love will not cheat!
Men cheat because women are available and women cheat because men are available.
A person that's truly in love with their partner has no desire for anyone else.
I think men cheat because at that moment they want something different, new. It seems to me that if they cheat they don't love you but again that is not always the case. Sometimes they think the wrong head and thus a mistake is made, without even thinking. Of course cheating is bad for anyone to do it but when that person is cheating they don't think about that. At that moment the only thing that matters is getting that fix and on to the next person. I think the only people who really know why men cheat are the men.
Cheaters come from both genders. But it varies from situation to situation. More than likely if you are being cheated on by a male then he is not Man enough for you to even worry about. If it's a female then she's not Woman enough. The point is that before a person cheats they should express their feelings or desires to what is going on instead of being childish and going behind their partner's back.
I've dealt with a cheating husband who wasn't man enough to tell me what was going on before it actually happened and he's still not Man enough for me to worry about. Not all Men are so childish, you just gotta find the right one for you. Same can be said for women too.
by Anna 7 years ago
Why do you think people cheat on their significant other?
by Shil1978 6 years ago
Why do People Cheat in Relationships?
by optimus grimlock 8 years ago
If your with someone and dont want to be with them then dont. That simple dont cheat on them it makes things worse!!!
by accofranco 2 months ago
Why do men cheat on their female lovers, including the married ones? does it mean that cheating is in the nature of men or....? please i just want to hear your own side of this issue. thanks.
by Iadore 7 years ago
I don't want a generalised answer. If your a man or if you were why would you cheat on ur grl or woman??
by deecoleworld 4 years ago
What do people cheat?
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