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How do you know your Gf or Wife is telling lie?
Can you analyze or find out if your gf or wife is telling lie to you in serious matters, where 1 truth can hurt your whole life and 1 lie can save your marriage life or loving life, but still you are under lie either she wants to save life? how to come out with the truth?
If you've been around a person for a while, you learn their normal behavior. When someone is lying, they normally can't make eye contact, they will use their hands to talk, they tend to look away and change the subject.
If the person is lying about another person....they will use pronouns instead of using a name. For instance, if the person's name is John....they will use he instead of "John".
Also you will notice some slight changes in their facial expressions. It is well known that a person who is lying will slightly grimace at the end of talking...this can barely be noticed...usually only a trained eye can spot it.
There are ways to find out truths. Such as... ask a bunch of questions about the subject and be sure to remember the answers correctly---write them down if you must. But, don't let the person know you are questioning them to trap them. Ask the questions casually and spread out if you must. Then later, ask the same questions...not all together, but one by one over time...if a person is lying, usually they will make up something else. A person fibbing, eventually lose track of all the half-truths and straight out lies they've told---and they end up forgetting if they said they were at Sues or Mary's house. It's easy to catch them up!!!
Eventually lies catch up to people. Usually people will hang themselves over time. One lie, leads to another lie, and before they know it they have told one right after another to cover up one lie. Once a person falls in to this never-ending lie trap, they are destined to be found out.
Why don't you just ask her, outside of asking her and trusting that she'll be honest there is no other sure way to know. If you ask and for whatever reason you don't believe, it may take a matter of time before her lies are revealed or it may not and you will find out the truth!
I believe that if you know well a person, you instinctively understands that this person tells a lie.
In any case, I hope that never happens: For me, sincerity is one of the essential values in a relationship. Without sincerity there is no freedom.
When she won't look you in the eye. That is a serious indicator of not telling the truth. I think looking to the left is also an indicator if I remember correctly.
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