What should u do when u wake up @ 3am in the morning dreaming about ur ex who di

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  1. Cracknutcase profile image72
    Cracknutcaseposted 13 years ago

    What should u do when u wake up @ 3am in the morning dreaming about ur ex who ditched u 4yrs bak??

    Considering the fact that he doesn't love u or possibly nvr loved u at all for that matter yet the tears are unstoppable as u sit there trying to hold urself from falling apart.. What should a girl do in a situation like that?

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    reeltaulkposted 13 years ago

    Go right back to sleep, consider it a nightmare and you were lucky enough to wake out of it!   But before you go to sleep think of nice thoughts or just stop thinking about him all together!!!!!!!!!  If the relationship was that bad whats the point of thinking and crying about him.

    Vonda G. Nelson

  3. Ashantina profile image59
    Ashantinaposted 13 years ago

    Do you realise that your ex has moved on with his life..?!
    Sweetie, let go, then go find yourself a new boyfriend.

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    Butch Newsposted 13 years ago

    It's not unusual.  The mind seems to like doing those things to us in sleep and I have no idea why except it's defragmenting and your dream mind was turned on.

    I have quite vivid dreams.  So much so I recall saying to someone... in a dream "you know this is just a dream".

    I enjoy my dreams and stopped taking an anti-depressant a long time ago because I no longer dreamed and there was little else I enjoyed in life at the time but my dreams.  If I had stayed on the anti-depressant I'm certain I would have killed myself.

  5. Right On Time profile image61
    Right On Timeposted 13 years ago

    You feel like you won't meet someone else and are setting your value lower than you really are, I think this might be what your subconscious is trying to tell you.

    Keep on going, you've gotta be out there. Slap some makeup on at 7:30am or whenever u go to work, make your hair all pretty and - you never know...

  6. Cracknutcase profile image72
    Cracknutcaseposted 13 years ago

    @Butch news- We can enjoy dreams when its abt something that doesn't hurt us.. But waking up from a dream u thought to be real/wanted it to be real is so damn freakingly painful..
    Thanks for ur ans

    @Ashantina- Its always the same story isn't it? One person could not hold on & the other is unable to let Go.. If letting go was as easy as it sounds then maybe, just maybe these pain wud disappear. Thanks for the reply

  7. dashingscorpio profile image80
    dashingscorpioposted 13 years ago

    One quick question is why have you not moved on?
    Four years is an awful long time not to have found someone who loves and adores you for you.

    However if one keeps a foot on first base it's impossible to make it to second base. Until you truly let go of the past your future will be on hold. There is no room for Mr. Right.
    Your future lies ahead of you, not behind you!

  8. tinaweha profile image61
    tinawehaposted 13 years ago

    I would find a new boyfriend and start dreaming about the new one.

    Help me with this:

    http://hubpages.com/question/94572/why- … ed-anymore

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