If you found out that your gf/bf/spouse slept with your close friend(s), is that

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  1. legallchew profile image57
    legallchewposted 8 years ago

    If you found out that your gf/bf/spouse slept with your close friend(s), is that a deal breaker?

    turn on or off?

  2. Darlene Sabella profile image60
    Darlene Sabellaposted 8 years ago

    For me, done, over...yes this would be the deal breaker no questions asked, They can have each other, go off and play in your own playground.  The jig is up, the marriage is over, sweet dreams...

  3. legallchew profile image57
    legallchewposted 8 years ago

    sorry. i failed to expound of the question.

    it's more of:

    If you found out that your gf/bf/spouse slept with your close friend(s) BEFORE YOU, is that a deal breaker?

    before the two of you went into a relationship not during. smile


  4. Justmesexxi22 profile image58
    Justmesexxi22posted 8 years ago

    That a big turn off.But if you truely love them yall will find some way to get around that mistake or that big Incident.

  5. tysanders profile image61
    tysandersposted 8 years ago

    At first glance I was like why is anyone even asking this question. But the corrected version I would have to say no, not a deal breaker. It would depend on the nature of their relationship. Were they in love or was it a one night stand? Was it just a sex thing or do they still creep from time to time? It also depends on what he wants from you? Are you going into a monogamous relationship or is he just trying to get down for the sake of saying he slept with two friends? Does your friend still have feelings for this person? I would discuss with the friend first and definitely wouldn't rush into having sex with the person. It may be less complicated to get someone who hasn't smashed the homies but if you really like them it could work.

    Just remember, it's never what you do but how you do it. Good luck!

  6. Jangaplanet profile image69
    Jangaplanetposted 8 years ago

    No , because we never had a deal to begin with , you don't make deals to be with someone ,what you do is you make a choice. If she/he slept with someone then i would simply leave them.

  7. stricktlydating profile image86
    stricktlydatingposted 8 years ago

    A massive deal breaker.  End of relationship and also end of friendship with whoever they did it with.


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