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If you had it to do all over again would you ask your spouse to marry you?

  1. jagandelight profile image79
    jagandelightposted 7 years ago

    If you had it to do all over again would you ask your spouse to marry you?

  2. camlo profile image90
    camloposted 7 years ago

    No. Well, I'm divorced now, but I wouldn't have asked her to marry me in the first place.

  3. MickS profile image73
    MickSposted 7 years ago

    Yes.

  4. Vinodkpillai profile image79
    Vinodkpillaiposted 7 years ago

    yes I would. Because I would have to take the decision  from the vantage point and circumstances afforded to me then when I took the decision, and I cannot today imagine how I could have decided differently. Moreover, irrespective of how I label my experience ("good", "bad", "ugly") I believe that my contribution to shaping the experience cannot be ignored and as an equal partner I take pride and responsibility in equal measure for the outcome. Lastly, i believe that the people we find ourselves with are all part of the grand scheme of things for this lifetime and substituting the persons or places would hardly change the lessons we need to learn.

 
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