How can I get my girl friend to love me when she feels that she is rasing our ch

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    Harvey695posted 7 years ago

    How can I get my girl friend to love me when she feels that she is rasing our child alone...

    because I am unable to help support him?

  2. tinaweha profile image68
    tinawehaposted 7 years ago

    Get a job or get an education that will help you make more money.  When you are able to help support the child she will love you more.  It's sad but true.  It is genetically programmed that women will love a guy who will help her child survive. 

    I'm sure she loves you.  She's just hoping that you can find a way to help her.

  3. tysanders profile image60
    tysandersposted 7 years ago

    Supporting a child is not limited to finances. If you aren't able to support them financially then help support them in other ways until you can find work or gain financial stability. A part of being a man is being responsible regardless of circumstance. If you step up and show her that you are being the best father and man you can be in any situation she will respect you more and that will lead to love.

 
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