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Can having a baby save a relationship?

  1. Libra Rajani profile image78
    Libra Rajaniposted 7 years ago

    Can having a baby save a relationship?

  2. mypleasurefantasy profile image88
    mypleasurefantasyposted 7 years ago

    That's a pretty difficult question and an even more difficult situation--it's never good to have a child to save someone from leaving or to make a relationship stronger, because ultimately your relationship may fail anyway--are you going to regret having that child? Maybe yes, maybe no. The best thing is to hope things will work out, fates funny and lifes funnier--if its meant to be it will be, if it's not, a child will not help the situation at all--and may even make the situation worse.........

  3. krillco profile image93
    krillcoposted 7 years ago

    No, it is a very unwise decision.


  4. tenordj profile image77
    tenordjposted 7 years ago

    I would have to say no on this one. If your having trouble with just the two of you adding something that needs constant attention is not going to help anything at all. It will be another thing for you both to have to make decisions about and can lead to other arguments. If you cant get along with each other why would you want to do something that will link you both together forever?

  5. KatieCohen profile image56
    KatieCohenposted 7 years ago

    absolutely not. I think the reason people think this works is because sometimes it might extend the relationship a little longer then it normally would have.  If a relationship is going to end it is going to end.  If you bring a baby into that mess that is all you are doing.. bringing a third person into your messed up relationship.  And now most likely ex relationship. BAD idea.

  6. dianne143 profile image36
    dianne143posted 7 years ago

    No. it cannot save a relationship. It will be too complicated specially one day if they you will both know you don't love each other.