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My boyfriend is texting a girl and she is texting him they call eachother baby h

  1. lavigne profile image50
    lavigneposted 7 years ago

    My boyfriend is texting a girl and she is texting him they call eachother baby he says she knows...

    that we are together n i have even said something to her and she says sorry he is w me all the time there are no physical signs of cheating we saw her out ond they hugged in front of me i was still on hiss arm not to menion pregnant we also have a 2 year old.

  2. MaryLoften profile image55
    MaryLoftenposted 7 years ago

    Trush your gut Lavigne, not your heart. Your heart will always be jealous, but your gut will always steer you right.

  3. Dr. Wendy profile image67
    Dr. Wendyposted 7 years ago

    No physical signs but they hugged in front of you, knowing you are pregnant (and probably emotional/hormonal)?  They text and call each other baby?  That is emotional cheating in my book.  You deserve better than that, and so do your children.

  4. ChaseK8 profile image60
    ChaseK8posted 6 years ago

    I agree with Dr. Wendy... someone can be cheating emotionally in a relationship, but you have to decide if that is something you want to deal with or not. Some people are perfectly fine with their partner having an emotional relationship with another person so long as it never turns physical, but it is a personal choice you have to make.

    I will point out though that if your BF knows that the texting is bothering you and he is still doing it, that is a problem. For me that would show a lack of respect for my needs and emotions... but as I said it is a personal decision only you can make...

    Good luck!