my bf lies to me abt silly small things
what should i do?
"I hate lies"
My bf lies abt silly small things and i hate it,i cant support it anymore and i am thinking to leave him but i love him a lott.what should i do?
If he lies about the silly things he will lie about the serious things. Try to realize love is more than just a feeling. It is action behind feeling. If he can't love you enough to be honest with you, that says a lot about him. You deserve better than that; and trust me there are men out there who will give you what you deserve. If I were you, I'd walk away. It will hurt at first, but it will get easier, and there will come a day you wonder what you ever saw in him in the first place. Trust me, I know...
If he loves you the same way, he wouldn't lie to you at all. Maybe you should really take a look at your relationship now sweetie. Is it worth it? Is him lying to you worth your happiness? Without trust your relationship is nothing.
I have encountered this kind of behavior...I think the thing that gets us is wondering "why?" If it is because in the past he has found it easier to lie than to tell the truth than some of it can be ignored. If it is to cover something big than truth is important. The sad thing is that unless you can accept the silly lies as just the way he is, you will always be angry and will distrust everything he says. Some people might advise you to confront him. I would say, search your soul and decide if you can continue loving him in spite of silly lies.
obviously no one can support lies every time, leave him, you love him but he don't...
he showed me that he loves me but he say i am scared to say u the truth cause u never understand me
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