How can you tell that your partner is the right one for you?
In some relationships you think that the person you are with is the right one and sometimes they are not but for me i believe in my heart the one I am with is the one my first ex I thought that he was the right one for me but it ended up being wrong now the man I am with makes me happy and laughs.
You can only tell that he/she is the right one for you if your heart tells you so. It depend to whom your partner is if you feel the same way and would go to the next level of life then you can tell she/he is the one. It's hard also to predict who ever our partner for now is the one for us as there are lots of obstacle in a relationship. All we need is faith and guidance with God cos he is the one who know who is really for us.
I would say that...for a longterm relationship, you can usually tell whether or not your partner is the right one, is after dating them for about six months. Until then, most people are on best behavior.
If you have very few squabbles (I believe that all couples argue once in a while) - say, no more than one every couple of months - and, you feel totally at ease with them (i.e., you feel you can tell them anything and be yourself....and, nothing about them makes you feel uncomfortable (e.g. their past, or, their eating habits)), then, I would say that you've found the ideal partner for you.
Only you can answer this question!
In order for any of us to "know" if our partner is "right" for us we must truly know what we want in a mate.
You may find it beneficial to write down all of the traits you want in your ideal man and then compare them to what you know to be true about your man.
Another reason why we select the wrong partners long-term aside from not knowing what it is we really want...etc It's because we'e constantly evolving. A young lady in high school may be happy with a cute jock who has a great sense of humor. They don't call it "puppy love" for nothing.
As she gets older she may not feel that's enough.
Our lists of desires changes a great deal from ages 18-35. That's why the divorce rate is higher for very young married couples.
Most people also jump too fast and too deep into relationships without truly getting to know someone.
Awhile back I wrote a hub regarding relationship happiness.
It may be of some help to you.
http://hubpages.com/hub/therecipeforrel … phappiness
Best of luck!
If there someone you can tell anything to. You don't hold nothing back
by Alexander Thandi Ubani 4 years ago
Is it right to tell your husband, wife, boyfriend, girlfriend or partner about your PAST SEX LIFE?Does it help or mar a relationship?
by kimberlyslyrics 7 years ago
With no fuss of affairs, security in knowing you love each other, it comes down to sex. With or without your partner joining with other people.Just asking, do you think this could first enrich your sex life, and second, possibly lengthen the duration of your relationship?Clearly it is more...
by jessyferari1 6 years ago
I feel uncomfortable having serious conversations with my partnermy boyfriend says, I only like to talk lovey dovey whatever the hell that means. He also says I avoid serious topics and get bored whenever his making serious conversations. For instance work, school, and money. In my defense I find...
by NGRIA Bassett 8 years ago
It must be difficult to trust someone sexually after a sexual assault, when and how would you disclose this information?
by lupine 4 years ago
Is it still considered "cheating" in a relationship, if you tell your partner?Some people go out and "cheat" and they tell their spouse/boyfriend/girlfriend, openly they are doing it. Does that make it not cheating if they are not doing it behind their back?
by Justjed 6 years ago
I once posted a thread about a girl jilting a guy who she is couple of months older. Both of them are happily married to their respective spouses but some things still bring them together because they both reside in the sane neighborhood. The guy, being a close friend confided in me that when she...
Copyright © 2018 HubPages Inc. and respective owners. Other product and company names shown may be trademarks of their respective owners. HubPages® is a registered Service Mark of HubPages, Inc. HubPages and Hubbers (authors) may earn revenue on this page based on affiliate relationships and advertisements with partners including Amazon, Google, and others.
|HubPages Device ID||This is used to identify particular browsers or devices when the access the service, and is used for security reasons.|
|Login||This is necessary to sign in to the HubPages Service.|
|HubPages Traffic Pixel||This is used to collect data on traffic to articles and other pages on our site. Unless you are signed in to a HubPages account, all personally identifiable information is anonymized.|
|Remarketing Pixels||We may use remarketing pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to advertise the HubPages Service to people that have visited our sites.|
|Conversion Tracking Pixels||We may use conversion tracking pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to identify when an advertisement has successfully resulted in the desired action, such as signing up for the HubPages Service or publishing an article on the HubPages Service.|