Hello Darla what do you do when you've mad ea bad sense of judgement and feel tr

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    vyryposted 7 years ago

    Hello Darla what do you do when you've mad ea bad sense of judgement and feel trapped?

    I have been married almost 9 years to a man who has two boys to raise because their mother left and we have raised them together. I went against my rule of dating men with kids this time because  I felt that the situation was not the kids fault so why should they suffer, He seemed an okay guy. Against many oppositions of my actions I went forward delaying going to grad school to raise them. The kids are now in college and my marriage has gotten worse. He has been abusive throughout  I feel heNEVER had respect for me.I became diagnosed with MS and it seems like hes worse. Hurt fromBad Judgement

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    crazymom3posted 7 years ago

    I am so sorry.  Sounds like it's time to get out of it and find true happiness. You sacrified so much of yourself and for what? to be mistreated and unhappy?  I believe that life really is to be enjoyed--not endured.  I was in two major car accidents and lived so I decided if I was alive it was to be happy, and enjoy my time, while I still have it here on earth.

    My heart aches for you and I hope you have the strength to move on, let go and work on the dreams and goals you had before marrying this person.  Run...run, run,run away from this person and be happy.  Happiness is inside of you.

 
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