Is there anything that I can do to get him back?

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  1. irishgirl878 profile image51
    irishgirl878posted 7 years ago

    Is there anything that I can do to get him back?

    My anger takes over when I get upset or hurt, I've hit my ex-boyfriend 2 or 3 times and thats why he is my ex.Although he still texts me and tells me that he is talking to someone else but idk if I should believe him or not

  2. AEvans profile image78
    AEvansposted 7 years ago

    Why would you want him back? It appears the relationship is not going anywhere. I would also recommend that you take anger management classes and learn how to redirect your anger. A woman nor a man should place there hands on each other out of anger. A relationship is built on love and understanding not abuse and insecurity.

  3. Gabriel Wilson profile image93
    Gabriel Wilsonposted 7 years ago

    Because you've ask the question; I'm going to give my honest opinion.
    As you say, he's your ex because you hit him. Get your anger under control first. I know this is probably not what you want to hear, but your ex won't be your only ex if you don't.
    Once you are actively dealing with your anger. Call your ex and see if he'll meet up. You can tell him you are dealing with the very reason he left and take things from there.
    We all get upset and hurt. But hitting is not acceptable no matter how upset or hurt you feel.
    Whether he's talking to someone else or not, isn't the issue. If the only reason he left you is because of you hitting him; then controlling your temper will fix that.
    I wish you all the very best and hope things work out for the better.

  4. kiaraxxwriterxx profile image53
    kiaraxxwriterxxposted 7 years ago

    Honestly, your relationship sounds very complicated.
    You both love each other but its not the right kind of love. Maybe you guys being apart is a good thing for now. I think if you want to get him back give him time, and talk about all your "issues" and work something out between the two of you. Your relationship should never be a fight, its a privlidge.

  5. nightwork4 profile image60
    nightwork4posted 7 years ago

    you should get him back sorry to say. when a partner hits their lover, it means that they think that violence is ok. personally if i was him, i wouldn't even text you.

  6. Daffy Duck profile image59
    Daffy Duckposted 7 years ago

    You should let him and all others go.  You need to get your anger under control and figure out ways to express yourself better.  Other ways that don't involve anything physical or violence.  If you don't then no one worth having will stay around for long prolonging your loneliness.

    Good Luck Honey.

  7. dashingscorpio profile image87
    dashingscorpioposted 7 years ago

    Very interesting.
    If you had said your ex use to hit YOU and you wanted to get back with him....etc I am fairly certain most people would tell you to stay clear of him! That's the same advice I would give your ex-boyfriend as well.

    In my opinion no one should hit anyone unless it's in self defense. If you feel the "need" to hit someone then you are with the wrong person. One great follow up question is, "Have you hit all of your ex boyfriends?" or is it something about this one that made it ok to hit him? "Anger is the mask that hurt wears" but sometimes bullies prey on weak people.
    Any rational person knows being violent or rude to someone is not going to attract or keep someone around.
    Had he been the one knocking you upside your head would you want to spend the rest of your life with him?  Consider yourself lucky he didn't hit you back or worse called 911 and had you locked up! Awhile back I wrote a hub about women who hit men. … -Hit-A-Man


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