What does a guy mean when he says he has a crush on u yet still remains as just

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  1. Cracknutcase profile image74
    Cracknutcaseposted 12 years ago

    What does a guy mean when he says he has a crush on u yet still remains as just friends?

  2. DonDWest profile image72
    DonDWestposted 12 years ago

    What he's truly saying is he WANTS you, but feels he's unable to KEEP you. In other words, he feels undesirable and is lacking in confidence.

  3. crankalicious profile image90
    crankaliciousposted 12 years ago

    There are only a few possible meanings:

    1. He is currently in another relationship.
    2. He is a player.
    3. Just friends always means a lack of physical attraction.

  4. Ashantina profile image59
    Ashantinaposted 12 years ago

    ..either that he's waiting for a sign from you for the green light or........... he's got a girl.

  5. dashingscorpio profile image83
    dashingscorpioposted 12 years ago

    Since he has told you how he feels....he is now waiting to hear if you feel the same way about him.
    A relationship does not happen unless both people want it!

  6. ClickrNet profile image60
    ClickrNetposted 12 years ago

    He wants you physically, but wants no commitment.

  7. lovelife08 profile image60
    lovelife08posted 12 years ago

    It means that you're either a back-up, a booty call, or he is just playing you and he only likes you for your looks.

    It can also mean that he is afraid of rejection.  He is afraid to actually ask you if you are interested in moving to the next level because you might say no.

    It can also mean that he thinks he is not good enough for you, and therefore won't even try.

  8. stricktlydating profile image83
    stricktlydatingposted 12 years ago

    I agree with the previous answers.  He's either playing you or he's in another relationship, or he's waiting for the green light from you.

  9. shanaya profile image60
    shanayaposted 12 years ago

    The question kinda speaks for it self..but if i have to answer then i think the guy probably insecure or afraid of losing you..

  10. Cobra nurse profile image60
    Cobra nurseposted 12 years ago

    This guy thinks of:

    1.Dilema in handling a relationship in his part especially if he aged above 30's.
    2.Not financially stable.
    3.Thinks of the future.
    4.Not emotionally stable.
    5.Afraid to know the truth.

    But in every answer to the question there is a phenomenal answer that only your feelings towards this guy can reveal the true meaning of your question.

  11. Zubair Ahmed profile image75
    Zubair Ahmedposted 12 years ago

    Maybe he is afraid to make a move in case he loses you.  Or that he is scared to make the 1st move.  I have known some guy's that would rather be friends with a girl then make a move and face losing their friendship.

  12. Mr-Yo LV profile image61
    Mr-Yo LVposted 12 years ago

    It means he wants to keep his options open.  Either has issue committing to a serious relationship or just a player.

    There's nothing wrong with that except for the fact that he could be missing out on something great, i.e., you!  Tell him that and not talk to him till he's ready to make a decision.


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