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Is this a Crush? or am I just ~

  1. rebeljewel2011 profile image57
    rebeljewel2011posted 6 years ago

    Is this a Crush? or am I just ~

    I think I have a crush on someone. Not sure because it's been so long. I keep thinking daydreaming about him and wondering what it...
    Or could I just be doing what every other woman does when they are single? I like the fact I feel as if I am interested in someone but can not be sure it is my mind playing tricks on me. I do not know him more than to say hi and bye to. So I guess it is based on a physical attraction but there is just something about his persona that I like.

  2. graveyard-rose profile image81
    graveyard-roseposted 6 years ago

    Let me give you just a little advice. We as women have a natural need to be with someone, take care of someone... It is in our jeans... When we are single, most of us go through a stage. Depending on how long you have been single. It could be due to that fact that you are a bit lonely, but dont want to give up "being the boss" (not answering to anyone)... But it is hard when your used to having a partner in crime. My suggestion is to ask him out. You may find that you dont like him. Or maybe you do. If you do, take it extremely slow even when it is hard. That way you are not locked into something that you may regret in about a month or two. Dates, movies nights, etc. This may even help in other areas. For example; to much down time, self esteem, R&R time...

  3. Ashantina profile image61
    Ashantinaposted 6 years ago

    Hey, try not to over analyse those feel good feelins.... enjoy it!!!

  4. Coach Julie profile image58
    Coach Julieposted 6 years ago

    As a teen and a young adult there had been various guys I had a crush on but never had the nerve to say anything to.  Looking back from my 50s I sometimes wonder what would my life have been like if . . .
    Don't waste time wondering and analyzing yourself out of something that might be a wonderful experience.  You never know unless you try.  Go for it, talk to him, get to know him.  Then you'll know.

  5. stricktlydating profile image83
    stricktlydatingposted 6 years ago

    It sounds like a crush.  And there's no harm in day dreaming, we all do it from time to time,  but don't invest your feelings into this situation when you really don't know him.

  6. shanaya profile image77
    shanayaposted 6 years ago

    Have an open and honest discussion with that boy regarding your new feelings for him.
    Continue the relationship with your own hidden agendas - A desire for romantic intimacy and the hope that the person will realize that he feel the same way.

    Second option will lead you to daydreaming & nothing more then that u will get. so if u asking for an advice then go with 1rst option..GOD BLESS YOU:)