How do you deal with a breakup.

Jump to Last Post 1-4 of 4 discussions (4 posts)
  1. jessyferari1 profile image61
    jessyferari1posted 7 years ago

    How do you deal with a breakup.

    .. This was my first ever serious relationship and it lasted for almost two years, he broke up with me and its been hard for me. I dont know how to deal with it, i've been getting a lot sad lately and I seem to be eating too much. What advice would you give on how to get over a breakup.

  2. profile image0
    AMBASSADOR BUTLERposted 7 years ago

    My heart goes out to you and this shall also pass away with the pain that you are going through now. Set your mind, eyes, heart on the things you enjoy doing and begin doing them and open yourself up to the gift of life that is yours moment by moment through the grace of GOD. You will be just fine and leave this past of your life behind you and know that better days are before you as you go on in your life moment by moment and step by step. Go in peace and freedom from within yourself and also with love that heals all of your hurts and pain in life and that is what life on the earth is all about which is to just be an human being and enjoy the miracle of life itself with all the pain and disappointments along with all the joy and pleasures that comes into your life like myself in answering your question. Go on and be blessed in your life from now on.

  3. rob_allen profile image82
    rob_allenposted 7 years ago

    Hi jessy, i feel for you. I know, its two years and two years is no joke. I know how it feels so i guess you can drop by my hub. It is entitled "How to forget a girl is 10 ways". I know you're a girl but i hope you get my point and apply some of it to your current situation.

  4. dashingscorpio profile image88
    dashingscorpioposted 7 years ago

    I'm sorry to hear that things did not work out for you.
    I seem to recall you were in a "long distance relationship."
    Reality dicates these are bound to have a set of challenges beyond normal relationships. In order for things to progress eventually one person must be willing to move. You also have to deal with having to "make up" after arugments via emails, texts, and phone calls instead of being able to kiss and hold one another. Long distance relationships also make it easy to give into "temptation" when one is feeling bored.

    Having said all of this there is only one way to deal with a heartache. You have to accept the relationship is over. Focus on other areas in life which bring you happiness, spend time with family and friends. Eventually you will be ready to date again. (Hopefully someone in your own town). It takes more courage to fall in love a 2nd or 3rd time than it does the first time. If it's of any comfort to you most people have a number of failed relationships before they "get it right". Below is a recent hub I wrote dealing with break ups. I wish you the best! … in-General


This website uses cookies

As a user in the EEA, your approval is needed on a few things. To provide a better website experience, uses cookies (and other similar technologies) and may collect, process, and share personal data. Please choose which areas of our service you consent to our doing so.

For more information on managing or withdrawing consents and how we handle data, visit our Privacy Policy at:

Show Details
HubPages Device IDThis is used to identify particular browsers or devices when the access the service, and is used for security reasons.
LoginThis is necessary to sign in to the HubPages Service.
Google RecaptchaThis is used to prevent bots and spam. (Privacy Policy)
AkismetThis is used to detect comment spam. (Privacy Policy)
HubPages Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide data on traffic to our website, all personally identifyable data is anonymized. (Privacy Policy)
HubPages Traffic PixelThis is used to collect data on traffic to articles and other pages on our site. Unless you are signed in to a HubPages account, all personally identifiable information is anonymized.
Amazon Web ServicesThis is a cloud services platform that we used to host our service. (Privacy Policy)
CloudflareThis is a cloud CDN service that we use to efficiently deliver files required for our service to operate such as javascript, cascading style sheets, images, and videos. (Privacy Policy)
Google Hosted LibrariesJavascript software libraries such as jQuery are loaded at endpoints on the or domains, for performance and efficiency reasons. (Privacy Policy)
Google Custom SearchThis is feature allows you to search the site. (Privacy Policy)
Google MapsSome articles have Google Maps embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
Google ChartsThis is used to display charts and graphs on articles and the author center. (Privacy Policy)
Google AdSense Host APIThis service allows you to sign up for or associate a Google AdSense account with HubPages, so that you can earn money from ads on your articles. No data is shared unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
Google YouTubeSome articles have YouTube videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
VimeoSome articles have Vimeo videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
PaypalThis is used for a registered author who enrolls in the HubPages Earnings program and requests to be paid via PayPal. No data is shared with Paypal unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
Facebook LoginYou can use this to streamline signing up for, or signing in to your Hubpages account. No data is shared with Facebook unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
MavenThis supports the Maven widget and search functionality. (Privacy Policy)
Google AdSenseThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Google DoubleClickGoogle provides ad serving technology and runs an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Index ExchangeThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
SovrnThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Facebook AdsThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Amazon Unified Ad MarketplaceThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
AppNexusThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
OpenxThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Rubicon ProjectThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
TripleLiftThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Say MediaWe partner with Say Media to deliver ad campaigns on our sites. (Privacy Policy)
Remarketing PixelsWe may use remarketing pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to advertise the HubPages Service to people that have visited our sites.
Conversion Tracking PixelsWe may use conversion tracking pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to identify when an advertisement has successfully resulted in the desired action, such as signing up for the HubPages Service or publishing an article on the HubPages Service.
Author Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide traffic data and reports to the authors of articles on the HubPages Service. (Privacy Policy)
ComscoreComScore is a media measurement and analytics company providing marketing data and analytics to enterprises, media and advertising agencies, and publishers. Non-consent will result in ComScore only processing obfuscated personal data. (Privacy Policy)
Amazon Tracking PixelSome articles display amazon products as part of the Amazon Affiliate program, this pixel provides traffic statistics for those products (Privacy Policy)