How do you tell someone you really love them. When the other partie is frightend

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  1. zumba man profile image59
    zumba manposted 10 years ago

    How do you tell someone you really love them. When the other partie is frightend to to love again.

  2. emdi profile image63
    emdiposted 10 years ago

    You can't sent a love package to some one and convince your love. From my perspective, to express true love, it takes time. It's slow. You need to take it very slowly. Actions speak louder than words. Spent time with the person (this is very important), talk to the person (not just about love, but about other things) give that person time to feel your love. Help that person, show concern, show your love in actions. Most importantly use every opportunity to spent time with the person and talk. This will have long term implications than sending a thousand love letters.

    I have one hub about how to express love. Check my hubs.

  3. cejae profile image60
    cejaeposted 10 years ago

    You have to give them the space to work through their fear.    No pressure, but be loving in all you do.  If your love is real and mature, you can do this for them.

    Melody Beatty has written a book that deals with this issue.  It is about love addiction and love avoidance.  I think the title is Love Addiction - but the part on Love Avoidance is really good.  She also presents ways to deal with these emotional issues.

  4. philirodje profile image61
    philirodjeposted 10 years ago

    First you have to start by showing that you really care,,, words alone will not do the magic. prove i would say will be a better start,,, show how much you love them by showing that you truly are for real...

  5. lburmaster profile image79
    lburmasterposted 10 years ago

    Just wait. You cannot force them into love. I have the same issue. I would adore the sensation of loving and can love. However, I am frightened of loving. Just wait. They will learn to trust you. Take it very slow, be patient.

  6. DrMikeFitzpatrick profile image34
    DrMikeFitzpatrickposted 10 years ago

    talk is cheap. all of our actions speak so loudly, no one can hear a word we say. in the end, no matter what you did or did not do, no matter who you are, or who you are not, no matter who you become or do not become, we all are worthy of love. those 6 considered, are all forms of love anyway, so you are "doing you" perfectly, and cannot mess it up. Dr. Mike

  7. Dave Mathews profile image60
    Dave Mathewsposted 10 years ago

    One has nothing to do with the other. You feel like you feel the same goes for every person. Just tell them and let them know unless you fear rejection.

  8. iviskei profile image66
    iviskeiposted 10 years ago

    "I like you...a lot"

    Often when the other party says that they are afraid to love again, that's because they don't think they could ever be loved by anyone else. Telling them straight up that you like them plants the seeds of consideration and could help them get over that.

  9. whiplashinfo profile image59
    whiplashinfoposted 10 years ago

    It's about your feeling, not them. Grab every opportunity to make your loved ones how much you love and treasured them. Remember, there are two things that we can't do nothing about, the past which is gone and tomorrow that is about to come.


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