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Is it really difficult to love on those who insist on hating you?

  1. LoveJewel profile image60
    LoveJewelposted 6 years ago

    Is it really difficult to love on those who insist on hating you?

    Genuine love is impossible to renege on. we must follow through with our love for it changes people, persuades and convict their spirit to be lover too.

  2. OutsideTheLines profile image60
    OutsideTheLinesposted 6 years ago

    It's incredibly difficult. I have to muster every ounce of strength I possess to do it.

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    reeltaulkposted 6 years ago

    It is not difficult it is impossible!!!  I don't know who or what you believe in but I don't think the source of anyones existance would promote defamation of ones love.  If you really felt loved and have genuinely loved before, you will know that the worst pain you can ever feel is when the love that you sacrificed or gave in the name of love was either crippled, disrespected or abused.  No one in their right mind or from this planet would be able to endure this type of turmoil or pain over and over again. So in order to preserve self and its contents, it would be best to remove self from such a toxic individual or environment and allow the power from the love you possess to heal YOU restore YOU and work for you instead of wasting your power aka Love senselessly.  I can be genuine from here until hell freezes over, but if someone is not deserving or accepting my love, I might as well go to hell thinking it will freeze over just like I believe that my genuine love will some day magically change someone.  Whomever the individual that you are trying to convict, really needs no conviction.  Everyone in their own time realizes and accepts love and will love unconditionally.  It is not anyones place to suffer at the hands of luring, persuading or introducing anyone to love.  You either desire it or not...... it's that simple!

    Vonda G. Nelson

  4. shampa sadhya profile image83
    shampa sadhyaposted 6 years ago

    I would say it is not only difficult but very illogical. Love is the sweetest thing ever so it is much better to be never loved at all than be hated in exchange of love. At least never being loved does not leave a bitter taste because there is no disrespect shown by any individual. One sided love is natural. If love is not reciprocated then it pains but one must accept it logically. On the other hand if love is reciprocated through abuse and disrespect then it is an insult. Thus, I feel it is better to maintain a safe distance.

  5. plinka profile image54
    plinkaposted 6 years ago

    You have to be an angel or Mother Teresa to love one who just hates you.

  6. Nefarious_Misery profile image66
    Nefarious_Miseryposted 6 years ago

    I wouldn't even attempt it. If someone hates you, you should do what I do and just hate them right back. It's worked for me.

  7. boygirlsolutions profile image57
    boygirlsolutionsposted 6 years ago

    Anger is the first step of love. People who insist on Hating are the people who love the most. The higher the hate the higher the love. It is very easy to love on those who insist on hating.

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  8. Dave Mathews profile image60
    Dave Mathewsposted 6 years ago

    I am a child of the only true living God. He commands me to love even my enemy. It is not a simple request but a command which I do my best to carryout.

  9. NorthEast Timber profile image60
    NorthEast Timberposted 6 years ago

    Why would anyone do that?   Maybe a masochist, but not a normal person.  I feel mostly indifferent to people who hate me.  And I pity them for harboring that emotion.  Hate is an anchor, it'll drown them. 

    And honestly, love can be an anchor too, with the same results.  Loving to change someone is a waste of time and energy, and wastes precious time of two people's lives.

    Love to be true love must be a circle.  It must be given, received and given back.  Otherwise it turns rancid. 

    You only get one life.  They get theirs you get yours.  I always hate it when people say they wouldn't want their spouse to date again if they died, or split.  Since when should anyone sacrifice their life for anothers wish? Who on this earth believes their life has the value of two lives, their and someone elses.   What terrible regrets would come when on your death bed you looked back and thought,  I stopped living to please someone else.