Shall I marry my cousin (mother's brother daughtor)?
I am Salman 33 years old, (Muslim) from india.
I am in love with my cousin (mother's brother daughter) who aged 17 (16 years younger to me)we are loving each other and we want to get married. but we don't know how to convey this matter to our parents. shall I marry my cousin? what about the age gap is it acceptable? please help us. please email me my email id is, firstname.lastname@example.org
waiting for your reply......
Of course you mustn't marry your cousin. First of all it's almost like marrying your own sister. And even if you are allowed to marry her, you should refrain from marrying an under-aged girl. It is illegal to marry someone under 18.
Secondly, think about her as a person who has an entire life to live. Marrying a man who is 16 years her senior would only mature her earlier and deprive her of the scope to grow at a natural pace.
When she will be 35 and in her prime, you will be 51.
From many aspects, marrying someone so young is also an act of perversion. Now if she were 21 and above of age then she may be in a position to judge for herself whether she should marry you. Right now your influence is too great in her life for her to decide and understand the extent and importance of her decision.
why would you even think of doing something like that. geez bud, there are over a billion people in india and you want to marry a relative who is still a kid. you need help.
Oh my god, that is disgusting, she is your cousin man, it is like sleeping with your sister or your mum or your daughter
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