Why do people always look for somebody better than their current partner ?

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   lightpeakposted 13 years ago

   Why do people always look for somebody better than their current partner ?
   
   Why do people  always  look for somebody better  ? What are they not satisfied with the partner that they already have ?

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   krjpublishingposted 13 years ago

   There are times when people are just not willing or able to commit to one person, so they look elsewhere. However, there are also times when people simply aren't fulfilled in their current situation. If they've developed feelings for the person they're with, it's hard to just walk away and hurt someone that you love. So they cheat. It's not the right thing to do, it's just what happens at times...

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   duffsmomposted 13 years ago

   I don't think people "always" do.  Certain people may but it says more about the problems and needs in their life than in their partner's.  If you are involved with someone who does this, the run...fast because they will likely never change.

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   dashingscorpioposted 13 years ago

   I think it's human nature to want (the best) that life has to offer no matter what it is including relationships. One of the reasons the majority of people live on is because they believe in the possibility that "tomorrow" can be better than today. Desire for things we don't have gives us a purpose.
   We always want to "improve" our well being. Unfortunately our "wants" tend to change overtime. What we coveted a year ago may hold less value for us today. The higher we climb the more we see how much more is possible. No one wants (less) than what they have today.

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   engelfantasydreamposted 13 years ago

   because they are not contented..people are meant to dissatisfied or unsatisfied forever..we have this innate nature that we look for something that we don;t have to other people that we meet that will be a part of our lives..that is why it is a never ending quest of searching for something we don;t have that we aimed to have..besides the fact that we don;t admit our faults that we think we are always right everytime..for instance people in a romantic relationship..even if it is your fault why you argue, you won;t accept that fact and you blame it on your partners..in return you going to break up and you going to look for someone who won;t always argue with you..looking for a better person as if you yourself is good..cos actually the truth is,sometimes it is not them..it is you,.it is not their fault..it is you...
   
   one should not search for perfection cos no one is perfect and you not perfect yourself
   if you like a better person to be with you
   change first yourself and be better...

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